"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chowda said:
Honest question,

Does no nut help you to do multiple rounds? I only imagine it takes away doing diddly squat because the sensation would send me into outer space if I’ve hadn’t released for a week.

Also, any tips on lasting multiple rounds appreciated as posters here say they can last 3+
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I doubt you ever get any. So my advice wouldn't be useful.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I just watched escort pics and fapped in between calls when I worked from home. I only made on sale today. My other co-workers also made one sale except a lady who made 2 sales. I then figured, maybe I would have made an extra sale today if I didn't fap.

Was going great before that with a no-fap streak before this. Here is what I think went wrong:

I was reading this book about racism and black history and and had this craving to look at Black escorts and fap. That book created some mental tension or something. It deals with how the white Christian identity can promote racist beliefs with the way the theology is presented, etc.. . That triggered me to look at Black women and start fapping in between insurance calls at the same time? Guess that book was just too much info for the brain to handle.
 
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corrector said:
I just watched escort pics and fapped in between calls when I worked from home. I only made on sale today. My other co-workers also made one sale except a lady who made 2 sales. I then figured, maybe I would have made an extra sale today if I didn't fap.

Was going great before that with a no-fap streak before this. Here is what I think went wrong:

I was reading this book about racism and black history and and had this craving to look at Black escorts and fap. That book created some mental tension or something. It deals with how the white Christian identity can promote racist beliefs with the way the theology is presented, etc.. . That triggered me to look at Black women and start fapping in between insurance calls at the same time? Guess that book was just too much info for the brain to handle.
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corrector said:
I just watched escort pics and fapped in between calls when I worked from home. I only made on sale today. My other co-workers also made one sale except a lady who made 2 sales. I then figured, maybe I would have made an extra sale today if I didn't fap.

Was going great before that with a no-fap streak before this. Here is what I think went wrong:

I was reading this book about racism and black history and and had this craving to look at Black escorts and fap. That book created some mental tension or something. It deals with how the white Christian identity can promote racist beliefs with the way the theology is presented, etc.. . That triggered me to look at Black women and start fapping in between insurance calls at the same time? Guess that book was just too much info for the brain to handle.
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Yeh this is very common.. Learning about History often leads to fapping. SMH

I think I might skip watching that documentary about the decline & collapse of the Roman Empire tonight.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When I go no-fap I get sensitive, as if anything can set it off. OP, do you ever worry about the accidental splooge in public? You could always say you spilled your coffee I suppose.
 
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Blood pressure has tested high after a week of no-porn/no-fap. I will have my blood pressure tested again next week.

This thing may have kept for a lower blood pressure.
 
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Never mind. Broke the no-fap last night when it looks like I woke up in bed during the night. Back to the same old self. Can not blame this on blood pressure anymore.
 
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Never mind. Broke the no-fap last night when it looks like I woke up in bed during the night. Back to the same old self. Can not blame this on blood pressure anymore.
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Hi Corrector,
Every Dog will have his Day.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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corrector said:
Blood pressure has tested high after a week of no-porn/no-fap. I will have my blood pressure tested again next week.

This thing may have kept for a lower blood pressure.
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Blood pressure fluctuates constantly. I was recording mine for a period of time and it would change while just sitting there and taking multiple recordings. Your blood pressure can go up at the doctor’s office just from stress of being there. Not a very accurate indicator since it is influenced by so many factors. Need to record an average over time with multiple samples.
 
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