"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I Haven't Busted A Nut In 5 Weeks, Ask Me Anything.

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Chowda said:
Honest question,

Does no nut help you to do multiple rounds? I only imagine it takes away doing diddly squat because the sensation would send me into outer space if I’ve hadn’t released for a week.

Also, any tips on lasting multiple rounds appreciated as posters here say they can last 3+
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I doubt you ever get any. So my advice wouldn't be useful.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I just watched escort pics and fapped in between calls when I worked from home. I only made on sale today. My other co-workers also made one sale except a lady who made 2 sales. I then figured, maybe I would have made an extra sale today if I didn't fap.

Was going great before that with a no-fap streak before this. Here is what I think went wrong:

I was reading this book about racism and black history and and had this craving to look at Black escorts and fap. That book created some mental tension or something. It deals with how the white Christian identity can promote racist beliefs with the way the theology is presented, etc.. . That triggered me to look at Black women and start fapping in between insurance calls at the same time? Guess that book was just too much info for the brain to handle.
 
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corrector said:
I just watched escort pics and fapped in between calls when I worked from home. I only made on sale today. My other co-workers also made one sale except a lady who made 2 sales. I then figured, maybe I would have made an extra sale today if I didn't fap.

Was going great before that with a no-fap streak before this. Here is what I think went wrong:

I was reading this book about racism and black history and and had this craving to look at Black escorts and fap. That book created some mental tension or something. It deals with how the white Christian identity can promote racist beliefs with the way the theology is presented, etc.. . That triggered me to look at Black women and start fapping in between insurance calls at the same time? Guess that book was just too much info for the brain to handle.
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corrector said:
I just watched escort pics and fapped in between calls when I worked from home. I only made on sale today. My other co-workers also made one sale except a lady who made 2 sales. I then figured, maybe I would have made an extra sale today if I didn't fap.

Was going great before that with a no-fap streak before this. Here is what I think went wrong:

I was reading this book about racism and black history and and had this craving to look at Black escorts and fap. That book created some mental tension or something. It deals with how the white Christian identity can promote racist beliefs with the way the theology is presented, etc.. . That triggered me to look at Black women and start fapping in between insurance calls at the same time? Guess that book was just too much info for the brain to handle.
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Yeh this is very common.. Learning about History often leads to fapping. SMH

I think I might skip watching that documentary about the decline & collapse of the Roman Empire tonight.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When I go no-fap I get sensitive, as if anything can set it off. OP, do you ever worry about the accidental splooge in public? You could always say you spilled your coffee I suppose.
 
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Blood pressure has tested high after a week of no-porn/no-fap. I will have my blood pressure tested again next week.

This thing may have kept for a lower blood pressure.
 
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Never mind. Broke the no-fap last night when it looks like I woke up in bed during the night. Back to the same old self. Can not blame this on blood pressure anymore.
 
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Never mind. Broke the no-fap last night when it looks like I woke up in bed during the night. Back to the same old self. Can not blame this on blood pressure anymore.
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Hi Corrector,
Every Dog will have his Day.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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corrector said:
Blood pressure has tested high after a week of no-porn/no-fap. I will have my blood pressure tested again next week.

This thing may have kept for a lower blood pressure.
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Blood pressure fluctuates constantly. I was recording mine for a period of time and it would change while just sitting there and taking multiple recordings. Your blood pressure can go up at the doctor’s office just from stress of being there. Not a very accurate indicator since it is influenced by so many factors. Need to record an average over time with multiple samples.
 
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