"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I Haven't Busted A Nut In 5 Weeks, Ask Me Anything.

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Honest question,

Does no nut help you to do multiple rounds? I only imagine it takes away doing diddly squat because the sensation would send me into outer space if I’ve hadn’t released for a week.

Also, any tips on lasting multiple rounds appreciated as posters here say they can last 3+
I doubt you ever get any. So my advice wouldn't be useful.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I just watched escort pics and fapped in between calls when I worked from home. I only made on sale today. My other co-workers also made one sale except a lady who made 2 sales. I then figured, maybe I would have made an extra sale today if I didn't fap.

Was going great before that with a no-fap streak before this. Here is what I think went wrong:

I was reading this book about racism and black history and and had this craving to look at Black escorts and fap. That book created some mental tension or something. It deals with how the white Christian identity can promote racist beliefs with the way the theology is presented, etc.. . That triggered me to look at Black women and start fapping in between insurance calls at the same time? Guess that book was just too much info for the brain to handle.
 

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I just watched escort pics and fapped in between calls when I worked from home. I only made on sale today. My other co-workers also made one sale except a lady who made 2 sales. I then figured, maybe I would have made an extra sale today if I didn't fap.

Was going great before that with a no-fap streak before this. Here is what I think went wrong:

I was reading this book about racism and black history and and had this craving to look at Black escorts and fap. That book created some mental tension or something. It deals with how the white Christian identity can promote racist beliefs with the way the theology is presented, etc.. . That triggered me to look at Black women and start fapping in between insurance calls at the same time? Guess that book was just too much info for the brain to handle.
 

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I just watched escort pics and fapped in between calls when I worked from home. I only made on sale today. My other co-workers also made one sale except a lady who made 2 sales. I then figured, maybe I would have made an extra sale today if I didn't fap.

Was going great before that with a no-fap streak before this. Here is what I think went wrong:

I was reading this book about racism and black history and and had this craving to look at Black escorts and fap. That book created some mental tension or something. It deals with how the white Christian identity can promote racist beliefs with the way the theology is presented, etc.. . That triggered me to look at Black women and start fapping in between insurance calls at the same time? Guess that book was just too much info for the brain to handle.
Yeh this is very common.. Learning about History often leads to fapping. SMH

I think I might skip watching that documentary about the decline & collapse of the Roman Empire tonight.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When I go no-fap I get sensitive, as if anything can set it off. OP, do you ever worry about the accidental splooge in public? You could always say you spilled your coffee I suppose.
 

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Blood pressure has tested high after a week of no-porn/no-fap. I will have my blood pressure tested again next week.

This thing may have kept for a lower blood pressure.
 

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Never mind. Broke the no-fap last night when it looks like I woke up in bed during the night. Back to the same old self. Can not blame this on blood pressure anymore.
 

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Never mind. Broke the no-fap last night when it looks like I woke up in bed during the night. Back to the same old self. Can not blame this on blood pressure anymore.
Hi Corrector,
Every Dog will have his Day.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Blood pressure has tested high after a week of no-porn/no-fap. I will have my blood pressure tested again next week.

This thing may have kept for a lower blood pressure.
Blood pressure fluctuates constantly. I was recording mine for a period of time and it would change while just sitting there and taking multiple recordings. Your blood pressure can go up at the doctor’s office just from stress of being there. Not a very accurate indicator since it is influenced by so many factors. Need to record an average over time with multiple samples.
 
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