"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I Haven't Busted A Nut In 5 Weeks, Ask Me Anything.

soulforge

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Honest question,

Does no nut help you to do multiple rounds? I only imagine it takes away doing diddly squat because the sensation would send me into outer space if I’ve hadn’t released for a week.

Also, any tips on lasting multiple rounds appreciated as posters here say they can last 3+
I doubt you ever get any. So my advice wouldn't be useful.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I just watched escort pics and fapped in between calls when I worked from home. I only made on sale today. My other co-workers also made one sale except a lady who made 2 sales. I then figured, maybe I would have made an extra sale today if I didn't fap.

Was going great before that with a no-fap streak before this. Here is what I think went wrong:

I was reading this book about racism and black history and and had this craving to look at Black escorts and fap. That book created some mental tension or something. It deals with how the white Christian identity can promote racist beliefs with the way the theology is presented, etc.. . That triggered me to look at Black women and start fapping in between insurance calls at the same time? Guess that book was just too much info for the brain to handle.
 

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I just watched escort pics and fapped in between calls when I worked from home. I only made on sale today. My other co-workers also made one sale except a lady who made 2 sales. I then figured, maybe I would have made an extra sale today if I didn't fap.

Was going great before that with a no-fap streak before this. Here is what I think went wrong:

I was reading this book about racism and black history and and had this craving to look at Black escorts and fap. That book created some mental tension or something. It deals with how the white Christian identity can promote racist beliefs with the way the theology is presented, etc.. . That triggered me to look at Black women and start fapping in between insurance calls at the same time? Guess that book was just too much info for the brain to handle.
 

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I just watched escort pics and fapped in between calls when I worked from home. I only made on sale today. My other co-workers also made one sale except a lady who made 2 sales. I then figured, maybe I would have made an extra sale today if I didn't fap.

Was going great before that with a no-fap streak before this. Here is what I think went wrong:

I was reading this book about racism and black history and and had this craving to look at Black escorts and fap. That book created some mental tension or something. It deals with how the white Christian identity can promote racist beliefs with the way the theology is presented, etc.. . That triggered me to look at Black women and start fapping in between insurance calls at the same time? Guess that book was just too much info for the brain to handle.
Yeh this is very common.. Learning about History often leads to fapping. SMH

I think I might skip watching that documentary about the decline & collapse of the Roman Empire tonight.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When I go no-fap I get sensitive, as if anything can set it off. OP, do you ever worry about the accidental splooge in public? You could always say you spilled your coffee I suppose.
 

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Blood pressure has tested high after a week of no-porn/no-fap. I will have my blood pressure tested again next week.

This thing may have kept for a lower blood pressure.
 

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Never mind. Broke the no-fap last night when it looks like I woke up in bed during the night. Back to the same old self. Can not blame this on blood pressure anymore.
 

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Never mind. Broke the no-fap last night when it looks like I woke up in bed during the night. Back to the same old self. Can not blame this on blood pressure anymore.
Hi Corrector,
Every Dog will have his Day.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Blood pressure has tested high after a week of no-porn/no-fap. I will have my blood pressure tested again next week.

This thing may have kept for a lower blood pressure.
Blood pressure fluctuates constantly. I was recording mine for a period of time and it would change while just sitting there and taking multiple recordings. Your blood pressure can go up at the doctor’s office just from stress of being there. Not a very accurate indicator since it is influenced by so many factors. Need to record an average over time with multiple samples.
 
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