"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I have really big depression
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Do you have a job? What is your typical day like?
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If you believe or know you have or have had COVID-19, go see a doctor.
Bible_Belt
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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I agree. Coffee is the elixir of life!
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His job is to troll us.
Actually surprised he's still allowed to hang around. Literally contributes zero but a couple of LOLs and WTFs here and there.
Suave88
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Got that feeling from getgo.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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There are two types of depression, chemical and situational. Chemical may only be fixed with treatment. Situational is causes by factors in life and there can be many. Big things can cause it that you may not be able to control such as breakups, job loss, family problems, finances, legal issues, etc. Temporary medication may be the only way to fix it. But you may also be able to have control of it with things like diet, exercise, and general control of your day and life. That may mean making some adjustments to get yourself to a better place. Sometimes those adjustments are simple like eating better or working out more. Other times it’s big stuff like getting a new job or moving to a new city. You have to be honest with yourself on exactly what the root cause is she be willing to face it head on like a boss.
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If you're levels are mostly normal or "within range", then try the following...
1. Remember that men go through stages as they create, work, then reach goals. Once certain goals have been obtained, there may be a temporary setback in psychological health while you aimlessly search for a new target. This is totally normal and may last days or weeks. Once you get into months, you should go to number 2...
2. Do you have a purpose in life right now? Some sort of goal you are moving towards? I think most depression is a result of men (and women) not having a real direction in life. Another possibility is that your purpose is not something you are really passionate about
3. Physical and strenuous exercise helps release some of those neurotransmitters that are incredibly healthy for your mental health. Some would argue that exercise helps your mind more than your body.
4. Diet plays an enormous role in your mental health. The massive amount of sugar in our diets causes significant sugar spikes, which keeps your mind in constant disarray. Try cutting out all carbs and see if that helps.
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Try Jesus.
Travel memoir21
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I was basically without air conditioning, no internet, no fresh food from my fridge so I had to eat canned food for a few days. I thought I wasgoing to be miserable, but I actually felt refresh the whole time. It got me off Social media which is somewhat of an addiction for me. It made me lay off the trivial stuff of life for a few days. I was somewhat of a Monk.
I think what makes the monks and ascetics so happy is simplicity. Air Condition, phones, laptops, junk food and social media usage can really complicate our lives sometimes. It made me to conclude that we as human beings are made to live simply not overload on stimulants. One of the happiest times in my life when I was a teenager constantly playing basketball with my friends instead of dabbling with technology.
I've been researching a lot about vaccines lately, and I trust the natural herbal medicine from The Earth more than a formulated flu shot any day.
Scars
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Facts. Don't know how this guy isn't banned yet.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Atom Smasher
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Ur giving false hope,stop it
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I mean the board apparently always needs a token troll and currently he is filling the role.
Atom Smasher
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.