I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Do you have a job? What is your typical day like?its related to my poor lifestyle and coffee addiction and also other mental issues
it makes me feel weird
Like not a part of this world anymore, more like a ghost
If you believe or know you have or have had COVID-19, go see a doctor.its related to my poor lifestyle and coffee addiction and also other mental issues
it makes me feel weird
Like not a part of this world anymore, more like a ghost
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I agree. Coffee is the elixir of life!Leave coffee out of this. It's not coffee's fault.
His job is to troll us.Do you have a job? What is your typical day like?
Actually surprised he's still allowed to hang around. Literally contributes zero but a couple of LOLs and WTFs here and there.His job is to troll us.
Got that feeling from getgo.His job is to troll us.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There are two types of depression, chemical and situational. Chemical may only be fixed with treatment. Situational is causes by factors in life and there can be many. Big things can cause it that you may not be able to control such as breakups, job loss, family problems, finances, legal issues, etc. Temporary medication may be the only way to fix it. But you may also be able to have control of it with things like diet, exercise, and general control of your day and life. That may mean making some adjustments to get yourself to a better place. Sometimes those adjustments are simple like eating better or working out more. Other times it’s big stuff like getting a new job or moving to a new city. You have to be honest with yourself on exactly what the root cause is she be willing to face it head on like a boss.its related to my poor lifestyle and coffee addiction and also other mental issues
it makes me feel weird
Like not a part of this world anymore, more like a ghost
Try Jesus.its related to my poor lifestyle and coffee addiction and also other mental issues
it makes me feel weird
Like not a part of this world anymore, more like a ghost
Facts. Don't know how this guy isn't banned yet.His job is to troll us.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Ur giving false hope,stop itTry Jesus.
I mean the board apparently always needs a token troll and currently he is filling the role.Actually surprised he's still allowed to hang around. Literally contributes zero but a couple of LOLs and WTFs here and there.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.