THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
Mr_rogers said:
:crackup: :crackup:
That is SOO not super suave... but still pretty funny
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I got slapped today!
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:crackup: :crackup:
That is SOO not super suave... but still pretty funny
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well played man, shes probably used to guys immediately backing down that she was so embarassed and confused that all she could come up with was to slap you.
She comes out looking like a psycho, for first telling YOU to calm down - and then using physical violence in response to a harmless joke.
She comes out looking like a psycho, for first telling YOU to calm down - and then using physical violence in response to a harmless joke.
Is it just me, or are people trying to put a DJ spin on a simple situation?
Not everything is an IOI. There is such a thing as getting slapped because someone was down right insulting.
"OMG! she assaulted me! she must like me!"
If you went up to a random person the the street, called them a douche, and they punched you in the face, they aren't doing it because they secretly think you're cool.
Take it on face value.
P.S. - Mr_rogers, great line
Not everything is an IOI. There is such a thing as getting slapped because someone was down right insulting.
"OMG! she assaulted me! she must like me!"
If you went up to a random person the the street, called them a douche, and they punched you in the face, they aren't doing it because they secretly think you're cool.
Take it on face value.
P.S. - Mr_rogers, great line
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
haha sometimes you gotta throw your "game" out the window and just be a straight up smart ass
I love it man. Girls I talk to, I don't think theres a single one that I haven't said something that wouldn't piss them off if they didn't know me. In fact a few girls think I'm a "prick" until they get to know me. Then they realize that I'm a charming prick
I love it man. Girls I talk to, I don't think theres a single one that I haven't said something that wouldn't piss them off if they didn't know me. In fact a few girls think I'm a "prick" until they get to know me. Then they realize that I'm a charming prick
stop makin excuses for him guys. the girl didnt like him and he said something stupid and paid for it....dearly. no he kows not to say somethin stupid and personal like that to a girl.RestoretheROAR84 said:
and dude...she totally doesnt like u. dont talk to her again.
BxPrince24
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he spoke his mind.... i see nothing wrong with it.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
krasnyiLion
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why is it stupid? it is true she sits down when she pees,
it depends on the mood and how he says it
it is NOT WHAT you say bu HOW you say it.
she sits down when she pees,it depends on the mood and how he says it
it is NOT WHAT you say bu HOW you say it.
tru, it is how u say it, but i wouldnt say somethin like that to a girl and expect her to dig me for it. it's stupid and childish. i couldnt jus walk up to a girl and say "shut up u have periods every month and ur pvssy drips all in ur pants like ur pissin urself". i could say that with all the sexiness and CF in the world and still sound like a childish jackass.krasnyiLion said:why is it stupid? it is true
it depends on the mood and how he says it
it is NOT WHAT you say bu HOW you say it.
Rata Blanca
Senior Don Juan
It's better to maker her feel mad than not making her feel anything at all.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Rata Blanca
Senior Don Juan
I'ts better to make her feel mad than not make her feel anything at all
Remember how kid's behave...they tease girls pull their hair, etc.
This is basic psychology, she will remeber the person who teased her, in this case the guy that wasn't afraid of not taking dirt plus make her mad. Put perhaps you were a little out of the line, never forget to smile after a neg, insult etc.
Remember how kid's behave...they tease girls pull their hair, etc.
This is basic psychology, she will remeber the person who teased her, in this case the guy that wasn't afraid of not taking dirt plus make her mad. Put perhaps you were a little out of the line, never forget to smile after a neg, insult etc.
Guys I think you're looking into this too much. I doubt this girl has any actual interest in him. But then again, I don't know how the conversation was going and I didn't see how they interacted.
I thought it was just a funny thing to say, and it should be left at that. But that's just me.
I thought it was just a funny thing to say, and it should be left at that. But that's just me.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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She "neg hitted" him... with... "you need to calm down you crazy f*cker"... is that an insult?
He retaliated with something that wasn't nessacarily an insult also... but it was out of line... it wasn't flirtatious at all... and it was rude.
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Let us turn the tables, shall we?
Her: Blah blah blah (saying something that she THINKS is cute and funny that would ACTUALLY probably offend you.)
You: You need to calm down you crazy b*tch.
Her: Shut up! You masturbate every day!
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Now think about how immature that is.
Would you get pissed? I'm pretty sure all the dumbasses here that thinks she "digs" him wouldn't say they dig her after she got done saying that.
You all are dumb.
He retaliated with something that wasn't nessacarily an insult also... but it was out of line... it wasn't flirtatious at all... and it was rude.
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Let us turn the tables, shall we?
Her: Blah blah blah (saying something that she THINKS is cute and funny that would ACTUALLY probably offend you.)
You: You need to calm down you crazy b*tch.
Her: Shut up! You masturbate every day!
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Now think about how immature that is.
Would you get pissed? I'm pretty sure all the dumbasses here that thinks she "digs" him wouldn't say they dig her after she got done saying that.
You all are dumb.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.