THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
Mr_rogers said:
:crackup: :crackup:
That is SOO not super suave... but still pretty funny
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I got slapped today!
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:crackup: :crackup:
That is SOO not super suave... but still pretty funny
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well played man, shes probably used to guys immediately backing down that she was so embarassed and confused that all she could come up with was to slap you.
She comes out looking like a psycho, for first telling YOU to calm down - and then using physical violence in response to a harmless joke.
She comes out looking like a psycho, for first telling YOU to calm down - and then using physical violence in response to a harmless joke.
Is it just me, or are people trying to put a DJ spin on a simple situation?
Not everything is an IOI. There is such a thing as getting slapped because someone was down right insulting.
"OMG! she assaulted me! she must like me!"
If you went up to a random person the the street, called them a douche, and they punched you in the face, they aren't doing it because they secretly think you're cool.
Take it on face value.
P.S. - Mr_rogers, great line
Not everything is an IOI. There is such a thing as getting slapped because someone was down right insulting.
"OMG! she assaulted me! she must like me!"
If you went up to a random person the the street, called them a douche, and they punched you in the face, they aren't doing it because they secretly think you're cool.
Take it on face value.
P.S. - Mr_rogers, great line
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
haha sometimes you gotta throw your "game" out the window and just be a straight up smart ass
I love it man. Girls I talk to, I don't think theres a single one that I haven't said something that wouldn't piss them off if they didn't know me. In fact a few girls think I'm a "prick" until they get to know me. Then they realize that I'm a charming prick
I love it man. Girls I talk to, I don't think theres a single one that I haven't said something that wouldn't piss them off if they didn't know me. In fact a few girls think I'm a "prick" until they get to know me. Then they realize that I'm a charming prick
stop makin excuses for him guys. the girl didnt like him and he said something stupid and paid for it....dearly. no he kows not to say somethin stupid and personal like that to a girl.RestoretheROAR84 said:
and dude...she totally doesnt like u. dont talk to her again.
BxPrince24
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he spoke his mind.... i see nothing wrong with it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
krasnyiLion
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why is it stupid? it is true she sits down when she pees,
it depends on the mood and how he says it
it is NOT WHAT you say bu HOW you say it.
she sits down when she pees,it depends on the mood and how he says it
it is NOT WHAT you say bu HOW you say it.
tru, it is how u say it, but i wouldnt say somethin like that to a girl and expect her to dig me for it. it's stupid and childish. i couldnt jus walk up to a girl and say "shut up u have periods every month and ur pvssy drips all in ur pants like ur pissin urself". i could say that with all the sexiness and CF in the world and still sound like a childish jackass.krasnyiLion said:why is it stupid? it is true
it depends on the mood and how he says it
it is NOT WHAT you say bu HOW you say it.
Rata Blanca
Senior Don Juan
It's better to maker her feel mad than not making her feel anything at all.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Rata Blanca
Senior Don Juan
I'ts better to make her feel mad than not make her feel anything at all
Remember how kid's behave...they tease girls pull their hair, etc.
This is basic psychology, she will remeber the person who teased her, in this case the guy that wasn't afraid of not taking dirt plus make her mad. Put perhaps you were a little out of the line, never forget to smile after a neg, insult etc.
Remember how kid's behave...they tease girls pull their hair, etc.
This is basic psychology, she will remeber the person who teased her, in this case the guy that wasn't afraid of not taking dirt plus make her mad. Put perhaps you were a little out of the line, never forget to smile after a neg, insult etc.
Guys I think you're looking into this too much. I doubt this girl has any actual interest in him. But then again, I don't know how the conversation was going and I didn't see how they interacted.
I thought it was just a funny thing to say, and it should be left at that. But that's just me.
I thought it was just a funny thing to say, and it should be left at that. But that's just me.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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She "neg hitted" him... with... "you need to calm down you crazy f*cker"... is that an insult?
He retaliated with something that wasn't nessacarily an insult also... but it was out of line... it wasn't flirtatious at all... and it was rude.
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Let us turn the tables, shall we?
Her: Blah blah blah (saying something that she THINKS is cute and funny that would ACTUALLY probably offend you.)
You: You need to calm down you crazy b*tch.
Her: Shut up! You masturbate every day!
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Now think about how immature that is.
Would you get pissed? I'm pretty sure all the dumbasses here that thinks she "digs" him wouldn't say they dig her after she got done saying that.
You all are dumb.
He retaliated with something that wasn't nessacarily an insult also... but it was out of line... it wasn't flirtatious at all... and it was rude.
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Let us turn the tables, shall we?
Her: Blah blah blah (saying something that she THINKS is cute and funny that would ACTUALLY probably offend you.)
You: You need to calm down you crazy b*tch.
Her: Shut up! You masturbate every day!
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Now think about how immature that is.
Would you get pissed? I'm pretty sure all the dumbasses here that thinks she "digs" him wouldn't say they dig her after she got done saying that.
You all are dumb.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.