"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Apparently I'm 'infracted' so I guess the time I spend there is over? Ah well. Love (Shack) has abandoned me again.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HOMBRE said:
Also, what's the big deal about one of your own exposing you. I mean if you're so sure and proud of your message, why worry about them knowing who you are?
It's not a big deal, there's no worry per se, but the fact is since some of us were "exposed", our threads were deleted. How can we get any advise across if it just gets deleted?

Also, once our usernames got flagged, there's now an instant shield of negativity associated with our usernames, ie being a troll. So, any further posts by us will instantly be pounced upon in a negative way.

Furthermore, in all fairness Hombre, your advise may be one of the posters on loveshack I agreed with, however I don't know your username on loveshack, so I'll never know.
 

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What the Hell happened?

Somebody fill me in . please

Thanks
 

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Mr.Positive said:
.... once our usernames got flagged....

I messaged the staff, so if there's any objectivity there I'll be back, othrwise it will be either a sockpuppet or they will have to stay a pink-only zone.
 

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Interceptor said:
What the Hell happened?

Somebody fill me in . please

Thanks
:crackup:

The locked loveshack thread in anything else has a lot of it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bigjohnson said:
I messaged the staff, so if there's any objectivity there I'll be back, othrwise it will be either a sockpuppet or they will have to stay a pink-only zone.
Well, I won't go back. To be honest, sosuave is the only internet forum I participate in. I try to not spend to much time on the internet, unless researching something. I think, for me, the biggest thing I learned is how proud I am of the camaraderie and teamwork that was involved here. If I can contribute advise, or seek advise, it will be here, on sosuave.
 

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"Why did you feel you had anything to prove over there?"

It wasn't about proving anything so much as it was about being a philanthropy mission to save people from the horrible advice that is all over your site.
Colonel KontrollerX is right.

Hombre, we appreciate your input (no matter how we disagree) and want you to share your own unique perspective.

What happened in the past is dead. Let it remain dead.

Part of maturity is knowing when to fight the good fight and when to admonish your adversities.
 

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Colonel KontrollerX is right.

Hombre, we appreciate your input (no matter how we disagree) and want you to share your own unique perspective.

What happened in the past is dead. Let it remain dead.

Part of maturity is knowing when to fight the good fight and when to admonish your adversities.
When to "admonish your adversities?" Whaaa? Okie, dokie.

As for the rest, I can drop it.

Mr. Positive, I have no doubt you'd agree with my advice. I will not reveal my identity though.
 

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Mr. Positive, I have no doubt you'd agree with my advice. I will not reveal my identity though.
:) OK Hombre, I don't blame you. Welcome to sosuave by the way!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, I won't go back.
Well I think KX might have ruined a few perfectly good panties over there. Funny how the whiff of some testosterone can stir up the ladies. lol.
 

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Well I think KX might have ruined a few perfectly good panties over there. Funny how the whiff of some testosterone can stir up the ladies. lol.
Actually, not really. The buzz is that they're glad he's gone. Takes a lot more than that to stir the LS ladies up.;) Except maybe Lizzie. She's wet for KX. But then, she's wet for any man for the right price.
 

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There's a buzz about something they don't care about and didn't bother them? lol.
 

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There's a buzz about something they don't care about and didn't bother them? lol.
Yep...kinda ironic huh? Kinda like the "buzz" around here about going into battle and "teaching" the pink site about things, right? Gathering the troops and all, don't ya know.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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touche.

Well, whatever. This whole thing is about as serious as you want to make it I suppose.

I think it was equally funny and cool. No one died. That's the main thing. A bloodless battle.
 

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touche.

Well, whatever. This whole thing is about as serious as you want to make it I suppose.

I think it was equally funny and cool. No one died. That's the main thing. A bloodless battle.
Agreed.
 

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HOMBRE said:
Absolutely. You must be a Real Man to recognize that. ;)
By using the term "gay", I sincerely hope you meant the definition of cheery, bright, or pleasant.

Suggesting degrading homosexuals does not make a "real man", IMO.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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