"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Apparently I'm 'infracted' so I guess the time I spend there is over? Ah well. Love (Shack) has abandoned me again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HOMBRE said:
Also, what's the big deal about one of your own exposing you. I mean if you're so sure and proud of your message, why worry about them knowing who you are?
It's not a big deal, there's no worry per se, but the fact is since some of us were "exposed", our threads were deleted. How can we get any advise across if it just gets deleted?

Also, once our usernames got flagged, there's now an instant shield of negativity associated with our usernames, ie being a troll. So, any further posts by us will instantly be pounced upon in a negative way.

Furthermore, in all fairness Hombre, your advise may be one of the posters on loveshack I agreed with, however I don't know your username on loveshack, so I'll never know.
 

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What the Hell happened?

Somebody fill me in . please

Thanks
 

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Mr.Positive said:
.... once our usernames got flagged....

I messaged the staff, so if there's any objectivity there I'll be back, othrwise it will be either a sockpuppet or they will have to stay a pink-only zone.
 

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Interceptor said:
What the Hell happened?

Somebody fill me in . please

Thanks
:crackup:

The locked loveshack thread in anything else has a lot of it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I messaged the staff, so if there's any objectivity there I'll be back, othrwise it will be either a sockpuppet or they will have to stay a pink-only zone.
Well, I won't go back. To be honest, sosuave is the only internet forum I participate in. I try to not spend to much time on the internet, unless researching something. I think, for me, the biggest thing I learned is how proud I am of the camaraderie and teamwork that was involved here. If I can contribute advise, or seek advise, it will be here, on sosuave.
 

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"Why did you feel you had anything to prove over there?"

It wasn't about proving anything so much as it was about being a philanthropy mission to save people from the horrible advice that is all over your site.
Colonel KontrollerX is right.

Hombre, we appreciate your input (no matter how we disagree) and want you to share your own unique perspective.

What happened in the past is dead. Let it remain dead.

Part of maturity is knowing when to fight the good fight and when to admonish your adversities.
 

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Colonel KontrollerX is right.

Hombre, we appreciate your input (no matter how we disagree) and want you to share your own unique perspective.

What happened in the past is dead. Let it remain dead.

Part of maturity is knowing when to fight the good fight and when to admonish your adversities.
When to "admonish your adversities?" Whaaa? Okie, dokie.

As for the rest, I can drop it.

Mr. Positive, I have no doubt you'd agree with my advice. I will not reveal my identity though.
 

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Mr. Positive, I have no doubt you'd agree with my advice. I will not reveal my identity though.
:) OK Hombre, I don't blame you. Welcome to sosuave by the way!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Well, I won't go back.
Well I think KX might have ruined a few perfectly good panties over there. Funny how the whiff of some testosterone can stir up the ladies. lol.
 

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Well I think KX might have ruined a few perfectly good panties over there. Funny how the whiff of some testosterone can stir up the ladies. lol.
Actually, not really. The buzz is that they're glad he's gone. Takes a lot more than that to stir the LS ladies up.;) Except maybe Lizzie. She's wet for KX. But then, she's wet for any man for the right price.
 

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There's a buzz about something they don't care about and didn't bother them? lol.
 

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There's a buzz about something they don't care about and didn't bother them? lol.
Yep...kinda ironic huh? Kinda like the "buzz" around here about going into battle and "teaching" the pink site about things, right? Gathering the troops and all, don't ya know.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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touche.

Well, whatever. This whole thing is about as serious as you want to make it I suppose.

I think it was equally funny and cool. No one died. That's the main thing. A bloodless battle.
 

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touche.

Well, whatever. This whole thing is about as serious as you want to make it I suppose.

I think it was equally funny and cool. No one died. That's the main thing. A bloodless battle.
Agreed.
 

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HOMBRE said:
Absolutely. You must be a Real Man to recognize that. ;)
By using the term "gay", I sincerely hope you meant the definition of cheery, bright, or pleasant.

Suggesting degrading homosexuals does not make a "real man", IMO.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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