"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Something that has always helped me is having some form of white noise in the room such as a blowing fan.

Temperature is very important too. I have a hardtime sleeping if Im hot. I only keep a sheet on my bed yearround except for winter.
the white noise kips me awake so i don't know about that one
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Forcing myself to read something boring helps sometimes. Like an obsolete technical manual or an old math book.

I also force myself to lie on my back until it becomes uncomfortable (side sleeper), then when I finally turn it is easier for me to relax.

I try my best to schedule important commitments as late in the day as possible.
 

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Matt Walker's book/lectures (that you can find on youtube) are very good for this.

This is absolutely something you should correct. Your well being depends on getting sufficient sleep.

I too had this problem and I wore it like a badge of honor - "I don't need sleep and can get so much done". Little did I know I was hurting myself - you are much more efficient(in every way) when you are well rested.
 

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What is the name of Matt Walker's book/link?
Search jre 1109 pod.

Book - why we sleep.

Top 5 maybe top 3 books I've read. Life Changing. Bigger lifts. More pulls. Better game. Made more money. Sleep is king. Minimum 8hrs regularly will change your life. Keep Test high. Add longevity to your quality of life.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Matt Walker's book/lectures (that you can find on youtube) are very good for this.

This is absolutely something you should correct. Your well being depends on getting sufficient sleep.

I too had this problem and I wore it like a badge of honor - "I don't need sleep and can get so much done". Little did I know I was hurting myself - you are much more efficient(in every way) when you are well rested.
Life changing. I can quantify the outcomes from improved sleep. I look younger. Better aesthetics. it simply raised the quality of life. As a kid I used to sacrifice sleep to pull. Today I won't do that. The cost is too great.
 

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