"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Something that has always helped me is having some form of white noise in the room such as a blowing fan.

Temperature is very important too. I have a hardtime sleeping if Im hot. I only keep a sheet on my bed yearround except for winter.
the white noise kips me awake so i don't know about that one
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Forcing myself to read something boring helps sometimes. Like an obsolete technical manual or an old math book.

I also force myself to lie on my back until it becomes uncomfortable (side sleeper), then when I finally turn it is easier for me to relax.

I try my best to schedule important commitments as late in the day as possible.
 

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Matt Walker's book/lectures (that you can find on youtube) are very good for this.

This is absolutely something you should correct. Your well being depends on getting sufficient sleep.

I too had this problem and I wore it like a badge of honor - "I don't need sleep and can get so much done". Little did I know I was hurting myself - you are much more efficient(in every way) when you are well rested.
 

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What is the name of Matt Walker's book/link?
Search jre 1109 pod.

Book - why we sleep.

Top 5 maybe top 3 books I've read. Life Changing. Bigger lifts. More pulls. Better game. Made more money. Sleep is king. Minimum 8hrs regularly will change your life. Keep Test high. Add longevity to your quality of life.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Matt Walker's book/lectures (that you can find on youtube) are very good for this.

This is absolutely something you should correct. Your well being depends on getting sufficient sleep.

I too had this problem and I wore it like a badge of honor - "I don't need sleep and can get so much done". Little did I know I was hurting myself - you are much more efficient(in every way) when you are well rested.
Life changing. I can quantify the outcomes from improved sleep. I look younger. Better aesthetics. it simply raised the quality of life. As a kid I used to sacrifice sleep to pull. Today I won't do that. The cost is too great.
 

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