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People using OLD who are screening for sexual availability. I'm not out and about doing Mode one, and I'm not going to get ready and drive to meet a woman who may not be with the program. Plus, I can leverage my D, which is better than average. Not to brag, but if this is the case might as well use it as a weapon in the arsenal.
That was exactly what I got from seeing her.
You can't be completely natural these days but you can be more yourself if you can screen well. It makes the actual meets more relaxed if you have a good idea where the chick is at and don't have to guess, blindly see where it goes or "get lucky".
That's exactly what I thought.Sounds like she's interested in adding you to her group of orbiters.
First of all, that was a b!tch move on her part. She clearly knows that both you and the other guy are into her. Pitting the two of you against each other like that is low-class behavior. Something you'd expect from the Jerry Springer crowd, not a "high quality" woman.
Cmon bruh. Thats a weak response. At least allow a fellow man to call a spade a spade. Like Giovanni said, IF you agree with such a " date" , you gotta be an 1100% self assured don juan. You actually use her friends as leverage. But...
This would've even been a struggle AFTER he would've blown her back out multiple times already. But without hitting that its even worst. Somewhere between cute and pathetic. No knock on OP, because every man that ever been in such a situation you knows he's been WAY too eager .
I was thinking the same thing. Imagine getting so many matches and giving zero fecks about them you refuse to go a inch out of your way to show some preparation and affection. You just invite her at the sports bar , make her travel all the way to you and let some female friends deal with her. After all its said and done send her home, and yet she keeps thinking she has a chance. That's next level alpha shyte.
OP seems to have a habit of pursuing 30-something females (childless and unmarried if memory serves) with strong game who hang at the bars/clubs when he doesn't really stand out enough to keep their attention with all of the crazy options these women have. These women are past their experimental stage and have already gotten their fill of D. Gotta change something at some point.
That would be a dumb question bc it's obvious this girl has character flaws. But it wouldn't be dumb question for *you* to have asked - on the first night and not the second - why aren't her friends nearly as hot as she is?
9x out of 10 these single 30 something females are the most unhinged species in the food chain known to man.
She's probably insecure or BPD.
Was thinking this the other day. Gotta get this guy a book deal.100% this. Man, you have a way with words.
Most women who are high quality women and desired have no more than a bachelor's degree at a non-elite university, typically a public university.
Sounds like she's interested in adding you to her group of orbiters.
@jaymbrs realized that and walked away. It's not like he stayed in her orbiter zone for a long time. He ended up wasting ~2 hours on one Saturday night.
Completely disrespectful on her part. She should have told you the situation from the get go. That being said, you should have locked down the details before agreeing to meet with her.
You should never have had to do this. Complete disrespect.
What a ****ty situation. Again.... See above.
Either exit at the first opportune time or have fun with the whole situation. But, I would have IMMEDIATELY said to myself: fvck this b1tch. No chance would I even consider trying to escalate the situation with her.
No, bro. SHE killed her chances with YOU. Big time.
Yeah, something happened on that first date. She put OP in a category, but not sure which one..
Nothing wrong with how you handled it. Once you get competitive you make it about you vs. him and she's the one with the frame. This also applies when a girl you're smashing mentions other guys. If you start qualifying yourself you're down a notch in her mind. Hitting up other chicks also would have worked of course. Just gotta roll with things and be happy as fukk you're yourself and not some chump simping on his friend.
That is a major advantage. It'd be good for someone not to lose ~2 hours on a Saturday night with some careerist pharmacist.You don't waste time, with MODE ONE.
