Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
He hasn't, which is why this is funny af.
I'm about to OD on all this copium. Oh noes, poor lonely models. It must be so hard for them to go to a bar and find a Chad to rail them for the night or get a beta to buy her a meal and follow her on all her platforms and donate before she flys to the next city to repeat the process. You feck one of these "models" in your "harem" yet, OP
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Oh you still believe in Chads huh. Pretty soon I'll become Chad even though I'm physically not Chad.
I'm about to OD on all this copium. Oh noes, poor lonely models. It must be so hard for them to go to a bar and find a Chad to rail them for the night or get a beta to buy her a meal and follow her on all her platforms and donate before she flys to the next city to repeat the process. You feck one of these "models" in your "harem" yet, OP?
Yeah, with all this talking and following on IG, I'm sure it's only a matter of time until your ""harem"" will let you meet them. Heck who knows, maybe even grant you a handshake!!
All this time, I naively thought that "having a harem" means a steady rotation of women you regularly have sex with. But apparently, following women on Instagram and supplying them with attention and validation, while getting nothing tangible in return, is what counts for having a harem these days...
The wall is coming for these soon to be crazy cat ladies. The best play is to level up and pull younger feminine traditional not modern women drinking the education kool-aid. Carbon copy of a copy. So common.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Like all on SS I also say I'm good looking (lulz) -- though it have happen twice that girls ask me whether I'm a model. Beyond that I'm age discriminated at my current social sphere, I can confirm the above description as a male.
I find swimsuit models and other types of models attractive (except IG models, those don't really appeal to me tbh), but runway models have this allure to me that I really find appealing. I love fashionable women and obviously runway models work in that industry. Their job is to basically showcase fashion.
Sureeee lol
I am relatively new to IG game, and still have a lot to learn. But the fact that I'm talking to all of these really hot girls feels pretty amazing.
Maybe try fecking one of them...it'll blow you mind.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
If you have a "harem" you can pick and choose from, then why did you Google terms to bring up SoSuave and why did you set up an account?
Just a hunch - but I am guessing this is probably a regular poster here who sets up different accounts just to troll.
I didn’t even know what SoSuave was before I made an account lol. And I just want to give other people confidence about themselves and know that I look like a lot of the guys here but attract models
, never providing any proof.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.