Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
He hasn't, which is why this is funny af.
I'm about to OD on all this copium. Oh noes, poor lonely models. It must be so hard for them to go to a bar and find a Chad to rail them for the night or get a beta to buy her a meal and follow her on all her platforms and donate before she flys to the next city to repeat the process. You feck one of these "models" in your "harem" yet, OP
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Oh you still believe in Chads huh. Pretty soon I'll become Chad even though I'm physically not Chad.
I'm about to OD on all this copium. Oh noes, poor lonely models. It must be so hard for them to go to a bar and find a Chad to rail them for the night or get a beta to buy her a meal and follow her on all her platforms and donate before she flys to the next city to repeat the process. You feck one of these "models" in your "harem" yet, OP?
Yeah, with all this talking and following on IG, I'm sure it's only a matter of time until your ""harem"" will let you meet them. Heck who knows, maybe even grant you a handshake!!
All this time, I naively thought that "having a harem" means a steady rotation of women you regularly have sex with. But apparently, following women on Instagram and supplying them with attention and validation, while getting nothing tangible in return, is what counts for having a harem these days...
The wall is coming for these soon to be crazy cat ladies. The best play is to level up and pull younger feminine traditional not modern women drinking the education kool-aid. Carbon copy of a copy. So common.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Like all on SS I also say I'm good looking (lulz) -- though it have happen twice that girls ask me whether I'm a model. Beyond that I'm age discriminated at my current social sphere, I can confirm the above description as a male.
I find swimsuit models and other types of models attractive (except IG models, those don't really appeal to me tbh), but runway models have this allure to me that I really find appealing. I love fashionable women and obviously runway models work in that industry. Their job is to basically showcase fashion.
Sureeee lol
I am relatively new to IG game, and still have a lot to learn. But the fact that I'm talking to all of these really hot girls feels pretty amazing.
Maybe try fecking one of them...it'll blow you mind.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If you have a "harem" you can pick and choose from, then why did you Google terms to bring up SoSuave and why did you set up an account?
Just a hunch - but I am guessing this is probably a regular poster here who sets up different accounts just to troll.
I didn’t even know what SoSuave was before I made an account lol. And I just want to give other people confidence about themselves and know that I look like a lot of the guys here but attract models
, never providing any proof.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.