half hour ago. i'm at a deli eating a sandwich. this hb8 walks in. she could sit anywhere. she places her books down on a seat RIGHT ACROSS FROM MY MINE!!!! i get eye contact!!!! she goes up to order comes back and sits. what does your boy do? finishes eating and walks right the fvck out!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i am a fvkn pvssy!!!!!
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
guywhoneedshelp
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Dude, in America, it is rare that a woman would even do this! However, this is great! America is a country in which people don't ever eat near strangers! Was she American? You should of said "Hello there, thanks for joining me."connor32 said:half hour ago. i'm at a deli eating a sandwich. this hb8 walks in. she could sit anywhere. she places her books down on a seat RIGHT ACROSS FROM MY MINE!!!! i get eye contact!!!! she goes up to order comes back and sits. what does your boy do? finishes eating and walks right the fvck out!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!
OR SAID SOMETHING!
yeah man america. land of the free,home of the brave(except for me)guywhoneedshelp said:Dude, in America, it is rare that a woman would even do this! However, this is great! America is a country in which people don't ever eat near strangers! Was she American? You should of said "Hello there, thanks for joining me."
OR SAID SOMETHING!
true romance
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Push the chair with your feet and tell her what took her so long to get here.
tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...
this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.
what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...
this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.
what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
the second i left i came up with a million openers.true romance said:Push the chair with your feet and tell her what took her so long to get here.
tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...
this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.
what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
true romance
Don Juan
Then why do you ask us what to do?
I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...
Confidence is key...
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...
Confidence is key...
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
Me: Woezelwazzel?true romance said:same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
Her: . . .
Me: . . .
Prodigy746
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i know exactly how you feel... i am a ***** too
Relax, all you got was an eye contact, you may have had ketchup on the side of the mouth and she couldn't eat until you cleaned it.
Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.
This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.
This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
dude....i didn't ask anybody what to do....read my fvkn post. i'm just venting.true romance said:Then why do you ask us what to do?
I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...
Confidence is key...
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
i hear ya. i know all i got was eye contact. we'll never know what would have happened. i'm just sayin at the very least i blew an opportunity to work on my game.DJDamage said:Relax, all you got was an eye contact, you may have had ketchup on the side of the mouth and she couldn't eat until you cleaned it.
Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.
This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
Miguel
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Man, if you want to get over this... Just think of the best thing that could of happened... then convince yourself it did. Then use it for next time.Credos said:Me: Woezelwazzel?
Her: . . .
Me: . . .
Eaglecreek
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Lol I don't think you have to teach credos to approach, he's just joking around... He's the real deal... (Yes I've seen him in action we both live in belgium)Miguel said:Man, if you want to get over this... Just think of the best thing that could of happened... then convince yourself it did. Then use it for next time.
guywhoneedshelp
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Ever seen the movie 40 days and 40 nights? The scene in the laundromat he doesn't speak to the girl at all, yet he picks her up. However, it's just a movie.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Furyguy
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The rest of us are glad so many guys like you exist.
Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.
Easier to think about it than to actually do it, eh?the second i left i came up with a million openers.
Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.
for sure bro. it's so easy when im drunk. sober is a dif story. i see your from rochacha. im from buffalo.Furyguy said:The rest of us are glad so many guys like you exist.
Easier to think about it than to actually do it, eh?
Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.