half hour ago. i'm at a deli eating a sandwich. this hb8 walks in. she could sit anywhere. she places her books down on a seat RIGHT ACROSS FROM MY MINE!!!! i get eye contact!!!! she goes up to order comes back and sits. what does your boy do? finishes eating and walks right the fvck out!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
i am a fvkn pvssy!!!!!
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
guywhoneedshelp
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Dude, in America, it is rare that a woman would even do this! However, this is great! America is a country in which people don't ever eat near strangers! Was she American? You should of said "Hello there, thanks for joining me."connor32 said:half hour ago. i'm at a deli eating a sandwich. this hb8 walks in. she could sit anywhere. she places her books down on a seat RIGHT ACROSS FROM MY MINE!!!! i get eye contact!!!! she goes up to order comes back and sits. what does your boy do? finishes eating and walks right the fvck out!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!
OR SAID SOMETHING!
yeah man america. land of the free,home of the brave(except for me)guywhoneedshelp said:Dude, in America, it is rare that a woman would even do this! However, this is great! America is a country in which people don't ever eat near strangers! Was she American? You should of said "Hello there, thanks for joining me."
OR SAID SOMETHING!
true romance
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Push the chair with your feet and tell her what took her so long to get here.
tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...
this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.
what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...
this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.
what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
the second i left i came up with a million openers.true romance said:Push the chair with your feet and tell her what took her so long to get here.
tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...
this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.
what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
true romance
Don Juan
Then why do you ask us what to do?
I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...
Confidence is key...
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...
Confidence is key...
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
Me: Woezelwazzel?true romance said:same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
Her: . . .
Me: . . .
Prodigy746
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i know exactly how you feel... i am a ***** too
Relax, all you got was an eye contact, you may have had ketchup on the side of the mouth and she couldn't eat until you cleaned it.
Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.
This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.
This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
dude....i didn't ask anybody what to do....read my fvkn post. i'm just venting.true romance said:Then why do you ask us what to do?
I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...
Confidence is key...
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
i hear ya. i know all i got was eye contact. we'll never know what would have happened. i'm just sayin at the very least i blew an opportunity to work on my game.DJDamage said:Relax, all you got was an eye contact, you may have had ketchup on the side of the mouth and she couldn't eat until you cleaned it.
Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.
This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
Miguel
Don Juan
Man, if you want to get over this... Just think of the best thing that could of happened... then convince yourself it did. Then use it for next time.Credos said:Me: Woezelwazzel?
Her: . . .
Me: . . .
Eaglecreek
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Lol I don't think you have to teach credos to approach, he's just joking around... He's the real deal... (Yes I've seen him in action we both live in belgium)Miguel said:Man, if you want to get over this... Just think of the best thing that could of happened... then convince yourself it did. Then use it for next time.
guywhoneedshelp
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Ever seen the movie 40 days and 40 nights? The scene in the laundromat he doesn't speak to the girl at all, yet he picks her up. However, it's just a movie.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Furyguy
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The rest of us are glad so many guys like you exist.
Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.
Easier to think about it than to actually do it, eh?the second i left i came up with a million openers.
Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.
for sure bro. it's so easy when im drunk. sober is a dif story. i see your from rochacha. im from buffalo.Furyguy said:The rest of us are glad so many guys like you exist.
Easier to think about it than to actually do it, eh?
Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.