half hour ago. i'm at a deli eating a sandwich. this hb8 walks in. she could sit anywhere. she places her books down on a seat RIGHT ACROSS FROM MY MINE!!!! i get eye contact!!!! she goes up to order comes back and sits. what does your boy do? finishes eating and walks right the fvck out!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
i am a fvkn pvssy!!!!!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
guywhoneedshelp
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Dude, in America, it is rare that a woman would even do this! However, this is great! America is a country in which people don't ever eat near strangers! Was she American? You should of said "Hello there, thanks for joining me."connor32 said:half hour ago. i'm at a deli eating a sandwich. this hb8 walks in. she could sit anywhere. she places her books down on a seat RIGHT ACROSS FROM MY MINE!!!! i get eye contact!!!! she goes up to order comes back and sits. what does your boy do? finishes eating and walks right the fvck out!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!
OR SAID SOMETHING!
yeah man america. land of the free,home of the brave(except for me)guywhoneedshelp said:Dude, in America, it is rare that a woman would even do this! However, this is great! America is a country in which people don't ever eat near strangers! Was she American? You should of said "Hello there, thanks for joining me."
OR SAID SOMETHING!
true romance
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Push the chair with your feet and tell her what took her so long to get here.
tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...
this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.
what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...
this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.
what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
the second i left i came up with a million openers.true romance said:Push the chair with your feet and tell her what took her so long to get here.
tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...
this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.
what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
true romance
Don Juan
Then why do you ask us what to do?
I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...
Confidence is key...
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...
Confidence is key...
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
Me: Woezelwazzel?true romance said:same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
Her: . . .
Me: . . .
Prodigy746
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i know exactly how you feel... i am a ***** too
Relax, all you got was an eye contact, you may have had ketchup on the side of the mouth and she couldn't eat until you cleaned it.
Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.
This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.
This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
dude....i didn't ask anybody what to do....read my fvkn post. i'm just venting.true romance said:Then why do you ask us what to do?
I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...
Confidence is key...
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
i hear ya. i know all i got was eye contact. we'll never know what would have happened. i'm just sayin at the very least i blew an opportunity to work on my game.DJDamage said:Relax, all you got was an eye contact, you may have had ketchup on the side of the mouth and she couldn't eat until you cleaned it.
Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.
This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
Miguel
Don Juan
Man, if you want to get over this... Just think of the best thing that could of happened... then convince yourself it did. Then use it for next time.Credos said:Me: Woezelwazzel?
Her: . . .
Me: . . .
Eaglecreek
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Lol I don't think you have to teach credos to approach, he's just joking around... He's the real deal... (Yes I've seen him in action we both live in belgium)Miguel said:Man, if you want to get over this... Just think of the best thing that could of happened... then convince yourself it did. Then use it for next time.
guywhoneedshelp
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Ever seen the movie 40 days and 40 nights? The scene in the laundromat he doesn't speak to the girl at all, yet he picks her up. However, it's just a movie.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Furyguy
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The rest of us are glad so many guys like you exist.
Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.
Easier to think about it than to actually do it, eh?the second i left i came up with a million openers.
Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.
for sure bro. it's so easy when im drunk. sober is a dif story. i see your from rochacha. im from buffalo.Furyguy said:The rest of us are glad so many guys like you exist.
Easier to think about it than to actually do it, eh?
Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.