half hour ago. i'm at a deli eating a sandwich. this hb8 walks in. she could sit anywhere. she places her books down on a seat RIGHT ACROSS FROM MY MINE!!!! i get eye contact!!!! she goes up to order comes back and sits. what does your boy do? finishes eating and walks right the fvck out!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
i am a fvkn pvssy!!!!!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
guywhoneedshelp
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Dude, in America, it is rare that a woman would even do this! However, this is great! America is a country in which people don't ever eat near strangers! Was she American? You should of said "Hello there, thanks for joining me."connor32 said:half hour ago. i'm at a deli eating a sandwich. this hb8 walks in. she could sit anywhere. she places her books down on a seat RIGHT ACROSS FROM MY MINE!!!! i get eye contact!!!! she goes up to order comes back and sits. what does your boy do? finishes eating and walks right the fvck out!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!
OR SAID SOMETHING!
yeah man america. land of the free,home of the brave(except for me)guywhoneedshelp said:Dude, in America, it is rare that a woman would even do this! However, this is great! America is a country in which people don't ever eat near strangers! Was she American? You should of said "Hello there, thanks for joining me."
OR SAID SOMETHING!
true romance
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Push the chair with your feet and tell her what took her so long to get here.
tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...
this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.
what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...
this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.
what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
the second i left i came up with a million openers.true romance said:Push the chair with your feet and tell her what took her so long to get here.
tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...
this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.
what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
true romance
Don Juan
Then why do you ask us what to do?
I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...
Confidence is key...
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...
Confidence is key...
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
Me: Woezelwazzel?true romance said:same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
Her: . . .
Me: . . .
Prodigy746
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i know exactly how you feel... i am a ***** too
Relax, all you got was an eye contact, you may have had ketchup on the side of the mouth and she couldn't eat until you cleaned it.
Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.
This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.
This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
dude....i didn't ask anybody what to do....read my fvkn post. i'm just venting.true romance said:Then why do you ask us what to do?
I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...
Confidence is key...
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
i hear ya. i know all i got was eye contact. we'll never know what would have happened. i'm just sayin at the very least i blew an opportunity to work on my game.DJDamage said:Relax, all you got was an eye contact, you may have had ketchup on the side of the mouth and she couldn't eat until you cleaned it.
Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.
This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
Miguel
Don Juan
Man, if you want to get over this... Just think of the best thing that could of happened... then convince yourself it did. Then use it for next time.Credos said:Me: Woezelwazzel?
Her: . . .
Me: . . .
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Lol I don't think you have to teach credos to approach, he's just joking around... He's the real deal... (Yes I've seen him in action we both live in belgium)Miguel said:Man, if you want to get over this... Just think of the best thing that could of happened... then convince yourself it did. Then use it for next time.
guywhoneedshelp
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Ever seen the movie 40 days and 40 nights? The scene in the laundromat he doesn't speak to the girl at all, yet he picks her up. However, it's just a movie.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Furyguy
Senior Don Juan
The rest of us are glad so many guys like you exist.
Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.
Easier to think about it than to actually do it, eh?the second i left i came up with a million openers.
Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.
for sure bro. it's so easy when im drunk. sober is a dif story. i see your from rochacha. im from buffalo.Furyguy said:The rest of us are glad so many guys like you exist.
Easier to think about it than to actually do it, eh?
Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.