half hour ago. i'm at a deli eating a sandwich. this hb8 walks in. she could sit anywhere. she places her books down on a seat RIGHT ACROSS FROM MY MINE!!!! i get eye contact!!!! she goes up to order comes back and sits. what does your boy do? finishes eating and walks right the fvck out!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i am a fvkn pvssy!!!!!
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
guywhoneedshelp
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Dude, in America, it is rare that a woman would even do this! However, this is great! America is a country in which people don't ever eat near strangers! Was she American? You should of said "Hello there, thanks for joining me."connor32 said:half hour ago. i'm at a deli eating a sandwich. this hb8 walks in. she could sit anywhere. she places her books down on a seat RIGHT ACROSS FROM MY MINE!!!! i get eye contact!!!! she goes up to order comes back and sits. what does your boy do? finishes eating and walks right the fvck out!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!
OR SAID SOMETHING!
yeah man america. land of the free,home of the brave(except for me)guywhoneedshelp said:Dude, in America, it is rare that a woman would even do this! However, this is great! America is a country in which people don't ever eat near strangers! Was she American? You should of said "Hello there, thanks for joining me."
OR SAID SOMETHING!
true romance
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Push the chair with your feet and tell her what took her so long to get here.
tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...
this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.
what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...
this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.
what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
the second i left i came up with a million openers.true romance said:Push the chair with your feet and tell her what took her so long to get here.
tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...
this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.
what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
true romance
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Then why do you ask us what to do?
I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...
Confidence is key...
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...
Confidence is key...
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
Me: Woezelwazzel?true romance said:same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
Her: . . .
Me: . . .
Prodigy746
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i know exactly how you feel... i am a ***** too
Relax, all you got was an eye contact, you may have had ketchup on the side of the mouth and she couldn't eat until you cleaned it.
Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.
This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.
This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
dude....i didn't ask anybody what to do....read my fvkn post. i'm just venting.true romance said:Then why do you ask us what to do?
I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...
Confidence is key...
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
i hear ya. i know all i got was eye contact. we'll never know what would have happened. i'm just sayin at the very least i blew an opportunity to work on my game.DJDamage said:Relax, all you got was an eye contact, you may have had ketchup on the side of the mouth and she couldn't eat until you cleaned it.
Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.
This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
Miguel
Don Juan
Man, if you want to get over this... Just think of the best thing that could of happened... then convince yourself it did. Then use it for next time.Credos said:Me: Woezelwazzel?
Her: . . .
Me: . . .
Eaglecreek
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Lol I don't think you have to teach credos to approach, he's just joking around... He's the real deal... (Yes I've seen him in action we both live in belgium)Miguel said:Man, if you want to get over this... Just think of the best thing that could of happened... then convince yourself it did. Then use it for next time.
guywhoneedshelp
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Ever seen the movie 40 days and 40 nights? The scene in the laundromat he doesn't speak to the girl at all, yet he picks her up. However, it's just a movie.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Furyguy
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The rest of us are glad so many guys like you exist.
Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.
Easier to think about it than to actually do it, eh?the second i left i came up with a million openers.
Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.
for sure bro. it's so easy when im drunk. sober is a dif story. i see your from rochacha. im from buffalo.Furyguy said:The rest of us are glad so many guys like you exist.
Easier to think about it than to actually do it, eh?
Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.