"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i am a fvkn pvssy!!!!!

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half hour ago. i'm at a deli eating a sandwich. this hb8 walks in. she could sit anywhere. she places her books down on a seat RIGHT ACROSS FROM MY MINE!!!! i get eye contact!!!! she goes up to order comes back and sits. what does your boy do? finishes eating and walks right the fvck out!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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guywhoneedshelp

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connor32 said:
half hour ago. i'm at a deli eating a sandwich. this hb8 walks in. she could sit anywhere. she places her books down on a seat RIGHT ACROSS FROM MY MINE!!!! i get eye contact!!!! she goes up to order comes back and sits. what does your boy do? finishes eating and walks right the fvck out!!!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!
Dude, in America, it is rare that a woman would even do this! However, this is great! America is a country in which people don't ever eat near strangers! Was she American? You should of said "Hello there, thanks for joining me."

OR SAID SOMETHING!
 

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welcome to the jungle.
 

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guywhoneedshelp said:
Dude, in America, it is rare that a woman would even do this! However, this is great! America is a country in which people don't ever eat near strangers! Was she American? You should of said "Hello there, thanks for joining me."

OR SAID SOMETHING!
yeah man america. land of the free,home of the brave(except for me)
 

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Push the chair with your feet and tell her what took her so long to get here.

tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...

this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.

what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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true romance said:
Push the chair with your feet and tell her what took her so long to get here.

tell her to get you a apple pie for dessert...

this take pratice with smart observation & witty line.

what book she is reading? etc..conversation... do you know how to talk ?
the second i left i came up with a million openers.
 

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Then why do you ask us what to do?

I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...

Confidence is key...

same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
 

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true romance said:
same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
Me: Woezelwazzel?
Her: . . .
Me: . . .
 

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Relax, all you got was an eye contact, you may have had ketchup on the side of the mouth and she couldn't eat until you cleaned it.

Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.

This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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true romance said:
Then why do you ask us what to do?

I used to be like muted but due to thousand approachs I made in the past years, I was able to use any situation to make conversation...it become natural...

Confidence is key...

same old line ..regret is worst than reject...grab your balls and do it next time..say anything...
dude....i didn't ask anybody what to do....read my fvkn post. i'm just venting.
 

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DJDamage said:
Relax, all you got was an eye contact, you may have had ketchup on the side of the mouth and she couldn't eat until you cleaned it.

Eye contact is a start but not enough to establish real interest. Even if you were on top of the game and had all the confidence in the world, you might have not been able to pull this one so its not the end of the world.

This is one woman out of a hundred you will potentially run into every day, its best if you start applying this DJ stuff and approach many women and thus one failed approach wouldn't and shouldn't bother you so much.
i hear ya. i know all i got was eye contact. we'll never know what would have happened. i'm just sayin at the very least i blew an opportunity to work on my game.
 

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Credos said:
Me: Woezelwazzel?
Her: . . .
Me: . . .
Man, if you want to get over this... Just think of the best thing that could of happened... then convince yourself it did. Then use it for next time.
 

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Miguel said:
Man, if you want to get over this... Just think of the best thing that could of happened... then convince yourself it did. Then use it for next time.
Lol I don't think you have to teach credos to approach, he's just joking around... He's the real deal... (Yes I've seen him in action we both live in belgium)
 

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Ever seen the movie 40 days and 40 nights? The scene in the laundromat he doesn't speak to the girl at all, yet he picks her up. However, it's just a movie.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah, just don't worry about it. If it happens again don't pvssy out lol. BTW DrD77 where do you live in Ga?
 

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The rest of us are glad so many guys like you exist.

the second i left i came up with a million openers.
Easier to think about it than to actually do it, eh?

Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.
 

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Furyguy said:
The rest of us are glad so many guys like you exist.


Easier to think about it than to actually do it, eh?

Seriously, stay angry at yourself, angry enough to actually do something next time.
for sure bro. it's so easy when im drunk. sober is a dif story. i see your from rochacha. im from buffalo.
 
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