"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How will you propose?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
and why the hell would you post this here?
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
I understand.. but I thought this was a board about attracting and dating women .. not marriage
diplomatic_lies
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"So....how about it?"
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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In my opinion, asking a girl to marry you is supposed to be one of the most romantic moments in a woman's life. She will always look back on it and the way you proposed may come up numerous times in your future so what ever you do, do it right!
I wouldn't know how I'd propose because I haven't found a girl I am willing to marry yet and if ever I'd pop the question, I'd want it to be personal.. (like at the place where you met, something she's always fantasized about etc) It will be one of the few moments I'd be caught being romantic
*shakes head in disbelief*
Don't worry, you'll have plenty of time to kiss her a$$ soon enough if you're foolish enough to commit to marriage.
squirrels
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But to fit around my c*ck, it'd be so big she'd have to wear it around her ankle.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
cave dweller
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How long have you dated her?
cave dweller
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Senior Don Juan
Lol.. You're thinking ahead of yourself, and that's not good. Think of these things as they arise and present themselves.
I guess it depends on the woman, and in this case, you're 15... I am clueless as what to say.
As for me, i'm 18, and have no plan of proposing any time soon.