"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How will you propose?

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I plan on either sitting level with her, or standing up and looking down. The latter would be pretty funny, but I'd use it as a joke.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Golden Arms
I won't..

and why the hell would you post this here?
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Cause not everyone is out for FB's..
 
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Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
Cause not everyone is out for FB's..
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I understand.. but I thought this was a board about attracting and dating women .. not marriage
 
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Do what Raymond did.

"So....how about it?"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ill never get married. Marriage is just a piece of paper...who says i cant live with someone or love them without being married?

Only point in getting married is for the tax cuts.
 
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If you have your heart set on marriage, by all means, go for it.

In my opinion, asking a girl to marry you is supposed to be one of the most romantic moments in a woman's life. She will always look back on it and the way you proposed may come up numerous times in your future so what ever you do, do it right! :)

I wouldn't know how I'd propose because I haven't found a girl I am willing to marry yet and if ever I'd pop the question, I'd want it to be personal.. (like at the place where you met, something she's always fantasized about etc) It will be one of the few moments I'd be caught being romantic :)
 
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Whatever you do, don't get down on "bended knee." Not only is this antiquated tradition pathetic and mawkish, it's a sign of submission putting your future in her hands with a "yes or no" answer. WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO PLACE YOURSELF AT THE MERCY OF A WOMAN?! If you've done your homework and know your partner, you will already KNOW the answer before you even ask it and not have to BEG on one knee like a pompous idiot in front of a crowd.

*shakes head in disbelief*

Don't worry, you'll have plenty of time to kiss her a$$ soon enough if you're foolish enough to commit to marriage.
 
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I'll slip the ring around my c*ck so she can find it when she goes to give me head.

But to fit around my c*ck, it'd be so big she'd have to wear it around her ankle. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Re: time?

Originally posted by cave dweller
How long have you dated her?


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I'm 15 man, hahaha. Though, I'm just wondering what you guys have planned.
 
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Re: Re: time?

Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
I'm 15 man, hahaha. Though, I'm just wondering what you guys have planned.
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Lol.. You're thinking ahead of yourself, and that's not good. Think of these things as they arise and present themselves. :)

I guess it depends on the woman, and in this case, you're 15... I am clueless as what to say.

As for me, i'm 18, and have no plan of proposing any time soon.
 
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