"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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How will you propose?

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I plan on either sitting level with her, or standing up and looking down. The latter would be pretty funny, but I'd use it as a joke.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Golden Arms
I won't..

and why the hell would you post this here?
Cause not everyone is out for FB's..
 

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Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
Cause not everyone is out for FB's..
I understand.. but I thought this was a board about attracting and dating women .. not marriage
 

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Do what Raymond did.

"So....how about it?"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ill never get married. Marriage is just a piece of paper...who says i cant live with someone or love them without being married?

Only point in getting married is for the tax cuts.
 

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If you have your heart set on marriage, by all means, go for it.

In my opinion, asking a girl to marry you is supposed to be one of the most romantic moments in a woman's life. She will always look back on it and the way you proposed may come up numerous times in your future so what ever you do, do it right! :)

I wouldn't know how I'd propose because I haven't found a girl I am willing to marry yet and if ever I'd pop the question, I'd want it to be personal.. (like at the place where you met, something she's always fantasized about etc) It will be one of the few moments I'd be caught being romantic :)
 

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Whatever you do, don't get down on "bended knee." Not only is this antiquated tradition pathetic and mawkish, it's a sign of submission putting your future in her hands with a "yes or no" answer. WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO PLACE YOURSELF AT THE MERCY OF A WOMAN?! If you've done your homework and know your partner, you will already KNOW the answer before you even ask it and not have to BEG on one knee like a pompous idiot in front of a crowd.

*shakes head in disbelief*

Don't worry, you'll have plenty of time to kiss her a$$ soon enough if you're foolish enough to commit to marriage.
 

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I'll slip the ring around my c*ck so she can find it when she goes to give me head.

But to fit around my c*ck, it'd be so big she'd have to wear it around her ankle. :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Re: time?

Originally posted by cave dweller
How long have you dated her?


cave dweller
I'm 15 man, hahaha. Though, I'm just wondering what you guys have planned.
 

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Re: Re: time?

Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
I'm 15 man, hahaha. Though, I'm just wondering what you guys have planned.
Lol.. You're thinking ahead of yourself, and that's not good. Think of these things as they arise and present themselves. :)

I guess it depends on the woman, and in this case, you're 15... I am clueless as what to say.

As for me, i'm 18, and have no plan of proposing any time soon.
 
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