how to tell if ur being used

[lamobatsman]

How do you know if a girl is just using you. For example as a tourist guide or for other reasons apart from genuinely liking you?

 

[narcissist]

a girl is always using you.

if you don't know that then you haven't learned anything.

 

[MisterSisterFister]

Are you putting the P into the V?

Have you tasted the pie?

 

[Mr Wright]

The majority of human contact is one person trying to get something from the other if you really dismantle it to the component parts. I wouldn't waste your grey matter wondering about what to do about it. There are objects and subjects, you can be one or the other.

 

[VladPatton]

Everybody uses someone. So, you may as well be banging her to make yourself feel better. If you're being used without banging, you're just paying for something and not getting it.

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

If you have to ask yourself " Am I being used?" you are most likely being used ..

Know what you are getting yourself into and know what you want out of this girl. If you know those 2 things then you will not be asking this question.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

If you have to ask yourself " Am I being used?" you are most likely being used ..

Know what you are getting yourself into and know what you want out of this girl. If you know those 2 things then you will not be asking this question.

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[SgtSplacker]

It's not about trying to figure out what she wants. It's about her doing what you want. And if she's not doing it then she gets nothing from me, but chances to do what I want...

 

[lamobatsman]

i feel like every girl i like uses me. even when i ask them they say im being stupid and then they will **** me over after i give them a chance and then they become very nasty and resentful to me.

 

[Bokanovsky]

How do you know if a girl is just using you. For example as a tourist guide or for other reasons apart from genuinely liking you?

If you are not getting what YOU want out of a relationship, you're being used. If you're doing something for her that you'd rather not do, you're being used. If you suspect that you're being used, you probably are.

 

[GotED?]

The majority of human contact is one person trying to get something from the other if you really dismantle it to the component parts. I wouldn't waste your grey matter wondering about what to do about it. There are objects and subjects, you can be one or the other.

This is a very wise analysis coming from a 21 year old.

+1 repped.

Keep on figuring the intricacies of human relationships and interactions. Sooner you get it, the less heartache you will suffer.

Exodus

 

[devilkingx2]

ask yourself these questions

1. what does she get from our relationship?
2. what do I?
3. who gets more? slightly or a lot more?


3 is the most important question, the other 2 are just food for thought

(optional) 4. who's getting what they really want: me, her, both of us or neither of us?

 

[Trump]

i feel like every girl i like uses me. even when i ask them they say im being stupid and then they will **** me over after i give them a chance and then they become very nasty and resentful to me.

Bro you have to fight back. I used to take such bs, even when they were subtly putting me down, pretending to laugh with me but instead laughing at me. I would act so grateful they were allegedly my friends and cared about me that I would buy them dinner and lunch just so I could tell people I knew two or three girls....

Then I freakin woke up. Now any text or offhand comment that may imply a put down, I respond harshly and it doesn't happen again.

The point being you have to fight back, these girls don't care if you are dead or alive. They don't phone you every night to check on you, they don't give you money, they don't give you sex. If they can use you to make themselves look good for 0.5 seconds, they will.

Fight back! :box:

 

[adam225]

How do you know if a girl is just using you. For example as a tourist guide or for other reasons apart from genuinely liking you?

If you're doing them favors and getting nothing in return .

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=212695

 

[TheShrew]

Always remind yourself of Briffault's Law!