"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to respond when a girl calls you an a $ $ h 0 l e?

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So what are some good responses and reactions for when a girl calls you an a-hole? Aside from ignoring her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Depends on if she is calling you an a-hole because she's kidding and has a smile on, or if she's actually pissed.

You can always just say: "Yeah, and you love it."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lots of girls say it to me and I don't know why. I remember one of the girls that said it to me said it after I asked her if she had fun fooling around with some other guy.
 
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Don't ever feel offended or loose ground when they call you an *******.

It really depends on your relationship dynamic with her. Have you two been friends? or is this someone you've started dating?

In most cases, what I'd do is...

Playfully thank her and say... is "Yes, I'm an ******* - but don't worry, I'm working on it."
 
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Demystify said:
Lots of girls say it to me and I don't know why. I remember one of the girls that said it to me said it after I asked her if she had fun fooling around with some other guy.
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The better question is, are you getting physically/romantically involved with these women at all, either before or after they call you that? In other words, have you usually slept or end up having sex with these women, or they just get mad at you and it never really goes anywhere?

You can end up not caring what they say or think of you, but if that isn't yielding the results you want, you better start changing your approach and perhaps tuning down your charm a little bit.

Are these girls who you are actually interested in?
Are they interested in you, or is it just you interested in them?
Again, what type of relationships/interactions do you tend to end up having with these girls?
 
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NARIGON said:
The better question is, are you getting physically/romantically involved with these women at all, either before or after they call you that? In other words, have you usually slept or end up having sex with these women, or they just get mad at you and it never really goes anywhere?

You can end up not caring what they say or think of you, but if that isn't yielding the results you want, you better start changing your approach and perhaps tuning down your charm a little bit.

Are these girls who you are actually interested in?
Are they interested in you, or is it just you interested in them?
Again, what type of relationships/interactions do you tend to end up having with these girls?
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This is before I have sex with, sometimes I'll make out with them but not always. And like I said, lots of girls say this so it's not something where I can just ignore the girl and move on to someone else. I'd like to know a good way to respond to this kind of statement.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Demystify said:
I'd like to know a good way to respond to this kind of statement.
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You don't need a C&F or witty comment for everything a girl says. If a girl called me an assh0le I would either ignore it completely, laugh at her or say something ****y like "yeah yeah you love it" depending on how she said it.
 
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When HBgirly-girl lashes out at you verbally or physically, tries to call you on something, tries to embarrass you or calls you any kind of name or whatever.........don't get angry, flustrated, physical or lash back in any way.... JUST LAUGH!!....laugh out loud to yourself as if you were amused by a by a cute comment from a six year old......because for all intents and purposes thats what she is and that's what's happening....laughing outloud sends her that message too .....and your lack of any other response will short circuit her girly-brain and her rage or anger will turn to confusion then self doubt....I actually do this all the time now and when I started was surprised how well it works!!
 
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I'd totally pull a Dane Cook from "My best friend's girl". A chick called him an assh*le and he replied, " Then walk away." and just looked into her eyes with a smirk. Then again, I'll sometimes wear a shirt that says" C'mon, its not gonna suck itself!" You get awesome looks from people in the grocery store while wearing that shirt!
 
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she: your an *******
you: you cant do s**t without me

..people with good sense of humor would understand
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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tappa said:
she: your an *******
you: you cant do s**t without me

..people with good sense of humor would understand
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LOLLL thats awesome.
 
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Her: you are an ***hole

You: Thanks.


This is by far the best response. Better than ignoring.
 
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