Romanemp22
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If you have other options on the go why would you care enough to "fire back with a vengeance"? I've literally hit up other women to come out after a date has flaked and have genuinely forgotten about the flake within a couple of hours. The most I'd say you should bother doing is, if your flake is following you on instagram, put a story up of you having fun with another girl on the same night. That's pretty funny. But getting into a potracted row with a woman who flaked is a waste of energy. You aren't going to stop that type of behaviour. Next her and move on if she doesn't have a good excuse. Literally a waste of energy to try to teach her a lesson imo.This is one area of Sosuave I think everyone is TOO nice. I would rip the girl to shreds if she cancels at the last minute. A man plans a date, is looking forward to it, dresses up a bit, makes reservations, and the girl cancels.
And the answer is not to get hurt or “no problem”? She tells her friends ‘hey that guy over there, you can cancel on him he doesn’t even care, doesn’t know his left hand from his right.”
I would say “Why the hell did you waste my time? Get out of my face.” I wouldn’t shrug it off. I’d fire back with a vengeance. Especially some girl who has is not a virgin several times over.
She has to know she is not dealing with an idiot.
Come on men, grow a pair.
Be kful of what u tolerate, u r in fact teaching people how to treat you.Just like the title says. I'm experiencing it often and gets me realy frustrated. Women dont have any principles. penny for your thoughts?
I think a no tolerance policy for last minute flakes is good, even if she trys to reschedule. It's really not that hard to keep one evening a week free, the fact that "something came up" just means you were not her number one priority that day.This is one area of Sosuave I think everyone is TOO nice. I would rip the girl to shreds if she cancels at the last minute. A man plans a date, is looking forward to it, dresses up a bit, makes reservations, and the girl cancels.
And the answer is not to get hurt or “no problem”? She tells her friends ‘hey that guy over there, you can cancel on him he doesn’t even care, doesn’t know his left hand from his right.”
I would say “Why the hell did you waste my time? Get out of my face.” I wouldn’t shrug it off. I’d fire back with a vengeance. Especially some girl who has is not a virgin several times over.
She has to know she is not dealing with an idiot.
Come on men, grow a pair.
Totally true and its not even a matter of ego, its just that if he attraction to you can be so easily removed you will hardly get that amazing bl0wjob that you want so bad cause it requires to have her totally into you among the many things.I think a no tolerance policy for last minute flakes is good, even if she trys to reschedule. It's really not that hard to keep one evening a week free, the fact that "something came up" just means you were not her number one priority that day.
You summed it up perfectly. If a chick cancels (last minute or not) without offering a sincere rescheduling opportunity (specific day), she will not hear from me again unless she reaches out."okay"
A woman who cancels on you last minute has
a) no respect for your time, and
b) questionable interest
I would only go on a date afterwards if she reaches out to reschedule and passes the sniff test (e.g. is legitimately disappointed or sorry). I certainly agree with others that you need to keep the fire warm a bit during the time between scheduling the date and the date itself.
@Glassguy is brilliant at handling this and managing to keep interest. During dating, this was usually a "next" for me
Block. Delete. Bish is dead to me. #nextSetJust like the title says. I'm experiencing it often and gets me realy frustrated. Women dont have any principles. penny for your thoughts?
You sir are a class act. I utilise the block function. Delete too. Its hilarious running into people from the past. Life trolls women harder than you or i ever could. Lulz."ok"
Nothing more. Do something else
OP, read this again.You summed it up perfectly. If a chick cancels (last minute or not) without offering a sincere rescheduling opportunity (specific day), she will not hear from me again unless she reaches out.
"OK hun. Hope everything works out for ya" and move on.
this is a HUGE red flag, if you ignore this and pursue, the situation you will find yourself in after this moment will not have your best interest in mind.Just like the title says. I'm experiencing it often and gets me realy frustrated. Women dont have any principles. penny for your thoughts?
The way a guy responds/reacts determines if he may see that chick again and how she perceives him. When I was literally flooded with Women, I truly did not care if I saw the girl ever again. Even if I truly initially wanted to see her. It wasn't an act but a genuine attitude of abundance. Women have a 6th sense for this and they somehow know if you are a true playboy with other Women or just putting up a front of not caring and this somehow intrigues them if it's genuine.
If a girl canceled on me, even if it wasn't last minute, I would respond with "Ok, no problem hun" or "Ok, no problem. Hit me up when you're free" and then proceed to delete the number. I would have 3 to 5 other Women willing to see/hang out with me.
Either a few days later or week later, I would get a text saying "Heyy" and my genuine response was "Hey, sorry who's this?". I didn't have time to worry about the girl that canceled on me because i was too busy with others. Some of the best "Heyy!" texts were the ones i received while I was literally fvcking another girl.
Ignoring her makes you look mad at her and butt hurt.. Which you might actually be.. But she doesn't need to know that shyte lolDon't ignore her because that will make you seem butthurt, let her reschedule and if she doesn't you next her
If you have other options on the go why would you care enough to "fire back with a vengeance"? I've literally hit up other women to come out after a date has flaked and have genuinely forgotten about the flake within a couple of hours. The most I'd say you should bother doing is, if your flake is following you on instagram, put a story up of you having fun with another girl on the same night. That's pretty funny. But getting into a potracted row with a woman who flaked is a waste of energy. You aren't going to stop that type of behaviour. Next her and move on if she doesn't have a good excuse. Literally a waste of energy to try to teach her a lesson imo.
Glass guy would you respond back with something on a last minute flake? Or would you simply delete and ignoreYou summed it up perfectly. If a chick cancels (last minute or not) without offering a sincere rescheduling opportunity (specific day), she will not hear from me again unless she reaches out.
"OK hun. Hope everything works out for ya" and move on.
Yep... just tell her it's not a problem, tell her to get back to you if she wants to reschedule, then forget about her.Who believes ignoring her is the best response?
Don't you think a simple, that's OK, no problem is the better option?
Over just ignoring her text.
I chose the second option, because she works at my company, so I am bound to see her at some point.. So deleting her forever isn't even an option.