Hmm seems about right. I keep thinking, im the prize, work for me. Not a good tactic in the beginning i suposeIn MOST instances(not all), your behavior prior to the date is what leads to a cancellation. I am willing to bet you go ghost until the day of the date after setting it up?
If so that's your biggest issue in my opinion.
So this thread should be about how to prevent this behavior from occurring in your instance instead of how to respond to it, IMHO, because that is where you biggest challenge lies if this is a frequent occurrence.
My flake rate is somewhere like 1 in 20 or 1 in 30.
"Ok, no problem hun" - You need to have the attitude of "You are one of many" so cancelling on you is her loss, not yours. This is why you need a bullpen of attractive Women.Just like the title says. I'm experiencing it often and gets me realy frustrated. Women dont have any principles. penny for your thoughts?
Well, apparently some people can pull this off, I never could. I used to have tons of flakes until I started keeping in touch with them...does not need to be anything major, just a text or two a day...if they initiate even better...Hmm seems about right. I keep thinking, im the prize, work for me. Not a good tactic in the beginning i supose
I've never reached out after setting up the first meet. They've reached out to me to confirm, but my offering to meet up with her IS MY confirmation. I also usually only setup a date a few days in advance. I think I've only had one cancel the day of because she was "sick" never heard from her again. Oh well.In MOST instances(not all), your behavior prior to the date is what leads to a cancellation. I am willing to bet you go ghost until the day of the date after setting it up?
If so that's your biggest issue in my opinion.
So this thread should be about how to prevent this behavior from occurring in your instance instead of how to respond to it, IMHO, because that is where you biggest challenge lies if this is a frequent occurrence.
My flake rate is somewhere like 1 in 20 or 1 in 30.
I often times set up dates a week in advance...sometimes more depending on what is going on. Usually it's because I already have something scheduled for other days.I've never reached out after setting up the first meet. They've reached out to me to confirm, but my offering to meet up with her IS MY confirmation. I also usually only setup a date a few days in advance. I think I've only had one cancel the day of because she was "sick" never heard from her again. Oh well.
I never react or get butthurt when this happens (it's rare at this point) because I don't care and it's pointless.
This is one area of Sosuave I think everyone is TOO nice. I would rip the girl to shreds if she cancels at the last minute. A man plans a date, is looking forward to it, dresses up a bit, makes reservations, and the girl cancels.I think “No problem honey” is best. Or “Ok cool”, or “Cool. That actually works out great ” Then fall silent & go find something else to do.
It conveys acknowledgment and DGAF and as an added bonus she might wonder what your nonchalant ass was up to after all.
You dont , you pick up yours phone and erase her number. Thats it.Just like the title says. I'm experiencing it often and gets me realy frustrated. Women dont have any principles. penny for your thoughts?
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