Master Don Juan
- Aug 1, 2013
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Yeh I totally get this.. I kinda do believe her reason for the flake was genuine.. It was children in need day over here in the UK on Friday.. So it adds up that she couldn't meet me after work for sex, because she would have to get home to her kid so she can take him to the event..Yep... just tell her it's not a problem, tell her to get back to you if she wants to reschedule, then forget about her.
The last part is the most important, don't let something like this dominate your mind... don't over think it. Women that are really attracted to you will not cancel without reason unless there is something wrong with her, or she just isn't interested. Don't waste time on game playing crazy chicks or ones that don't want you. If it helps just imagine she is a fat nagging b1tch, with bad breath that can't clean her @ss properly.
Another thing... don't walk away from her as some pathetic PUA 'trick' to get her to think about you.... trust me... if she isn't attracted to you she isn't going to be thinking about you, she will be glad you took the hint and the best you will get from her is that she will respect you.
Look... chicks today, especially hot chicks are spoiled for choice, she can get attention as easy as posting some stupid picture on Instagram saying "I'm bored" and she will have a dozen dudes hitting on her. If she is hot, her entire life she has been told she is great for doing nothing but looking good. Why in the fvck does any dude think that she cares if she cancelled on him? She will always have 2 or 3 plans for whatever evening you have planned... she typically spends her hours before your date figuring out what plans she will cancel.
Calling her out for this it a stupid waste of time, because while you are sulking at home, she's out doing something else, likely with another pathetic dude fawning over her telling her she is great.... your opinion means nothing.
If you don't get this or disagree... keep re-reading this post until it sinks in.
Also she has cancelled once before without a counter offer, and then still ended up meeting me after work and gave me a blow job.
I think with her being from my work/company adds more complexity as our paths are bound to cross.
So not replying back or deleting her doesn't achieve shyte.
However my 2 flakes and you are out policy has to be enforced, so I intend to completey cut this chick out for good.
Firstly she is a single mom, with her ex constantly trying to get back with her.. Then she is extremely unreliable and flaky with her kids.. Also she is a work colleague.. Most of this spells problem.
My aim was to bang her then move on anyway.. Pretty sure she will get back to me, but I intend to ignore.
But you are right.. A simple, hey that's not a problem will also let her know, her flake isn't the end of the world.