"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How to handle a booty call-call out
- Thread starter Crissco
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
NorwegianDJ
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You know you cant get examples of every situation in life and react accordingly. What happened to going out and doing?
Check out the blueprint and flawless natural. Your questions should be answered.
As for the booty call, it should be obvious to ignore/verbally agree to the last part and plow through the LMR.
Unless you're already friend-zoned.
Cheers.
PS: Sorry for posting here, but you gotta clean up your PMs.
Crissco
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Like I said in one of my last posts. Ide rather have the info in my head for when the situation comes up. It makes things a lot easier.
When girls mention that, I act like I didnt even see it, and it still doesnt work. Im obv doing something wrong here
Then they mention what are we gonig to do this late. I usually respond with a movie or just straight out say I want to see them.
Iceberg
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Crissco said:Just cleared my inbox.
Like I said in one of my last posts. Ide rather have the info in my head for when the situation comes up. It makes things a lot easier.
When girls mention that, I act like I didnt even see it, and it still doesnt work. Im obv doing something wrong here
Then they mention what are we gonig to do this late. I usually respond with a movie or just straight out say I want to see them.
You can't have the info in your head for every possible situation. Which is why people get annoyed that you start a thread for every random situation that pops up in your head.
Sometimes it's just common sense and experience.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Crissco
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hahahaa I think i might try that one out for the hell of itEase said:You got to say 'Baby you are not a booty call i just started thinking about you and wanted to see you so bad. I've been wanting to call you all day but i've been so busy so come over right now and lets do it like discovery channel'.
Crissco
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That aint gonna work for me bro lol Not my stylechiyeung said:I say "lets play chutes and ladders"
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Crissco
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ha ha that was the first thing that came to mind.scorpio1138 said:Candyland then...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.