"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How to handle a booty call-call out
- Thread starter Crissco
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NorwegianDJ
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You know you cant get examples of every situation in life and react accordingly. What happened to going out and doing?
Check out the blueprint and flawless natural. Your questions should be answered.
As for the booty call, it should be obvious to ignore/verbally agree to the last part and plow through the LMR.
Unless you're already friend-zoned.
Cheers.
PS: Sorry for posting here, but you gotta clean up your PMs.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Like I said in one of my last posts. Ide rather have the info in my head for when the situation comes up. It makes things a lot easier.
When girls mention that, I act like I didnt even see it, and it still doesnt work. Im obv doing something wrong here
Then they mention what are we gonig to do this late. I usually respond with a movie or just straight out say I want to see them.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Crissco said:Just cleared my inbox.
Like I said in one of my last posts. Ide rather have the info in my head for when the situation comes up. It makes things a lot easier.
When girls mention that, I act like I didnt even see it, and it still doesnt work. Im obv doing something wrong here
Then they mention what are we gonig to do this late. I usually respond with a movie or just straight out say I want to see them.
You can't have the info in your head for every possible situation. Which is why people get annoyed that you start a thread for every random situation that pops up in your head.
Sometimes it's just common sense and experience.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
hahahaa I think i might try that one out for the hell of itEase said:You got to say 'Baby you are not a booty call i just started thinking about you and wanted to see you so bad. I've been wanting to call you all day but i've been so busy so come over right now and lets do it like discovery channel'.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
That aint gonna work for me bro lol Not my stylechiyeung said:I say "lets play chutes and ladders"
scorpio1138
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Crissco
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ha ha that was the first thing that came to mind.scorpio1138 said:Candyland then...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.