"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How to handle a booty call-call out
- Thread starter Crissco
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
NorwegianDJ
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You know you cant get examples of every situation in life and react accordingly. What happened to going out and doing?
Check out the blueprint and flawless natural. Your questions should be answered.
As for the booty call, it should be obvious to ignore/verbally agree to the last part and plow through the LMR.
Unless you're already friend-zoned.
Cheers.
PS: Sorry for posting here, but you gotta clean up your PMs.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
Like I said in one of my last posts. Ide rather have the info in my head for when the situation comes up. It makes things a lot easier.
When girls mention that, I act like I didnt even see it, and it still doesnt work. Im obv doing something wrong here
Then they mention what are we gonig to do this late. I usually respond with a movie or just straight out say I want to see them.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Crissco said:Just cleared my inbox.
Like I said in one of my last posts. Ide rather have the info in my head for when the situation comes up. It makes things a lot easier.
When girls mention that, I act like I didnt even see it, and it still doesnt work. Im obv doing something wrong here
Then they mention what are we gonig to do this late. I usually respond with a movie or just straight out say I want to see them.
You can't have the info in your head for every possible situation. Which is why people get annoyed that you start a thread for every random situation that pops up in your head.
Sometimes it's just common sense and experience.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Crissco
Master Don Juan
hahahaa I think i might try that one out for the hell of itEase said:You got to say 'Baby you are not a booty call i just started thinking about you and wanted to see you so bad. I've been wanting to call you all day but i've been so busy so come over right now and lets do it like discovery channel'.
Crissco
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That aint gonna work for me bro lol Not my stylechiyeung said:I say "lets play chutes and ladders"
scorpio1138
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Crissco
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ha ha that was the first thing that came to mind.scorpio1138 said:Candyland then...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.