"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to handle a booty call-call out

Crissco

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Ex- I hit a girl up at 3 in the morning wanting some. Wanting her to come over, she says im not a booty call!!

How should I handle/respond to that?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NorwegianDJ

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Crissco, why do I always see a new thread started by you?
You know you cant get examples of every situation in life and react accordingly. What happened to going out and doing?
Check out the blueprint and flawless natural. Your questions should be answered.

As for the booty call, it should be obvious to ignore/verbally agree to the last part and plow through the LMR.
Unless you're already friend-zoned.
Cheers.

PS: Sorry for posting here, but you gotta clean up your PMs.
 

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Just cleared my inbox.

Like I said in one of my last posts. Ide rather have the info in my head for when the situation comes up. It makes things a lot easier.

When girls mention that, I act like I didnt even see it, and it still doesnt work. Im obv doing something wrong here

Then they mention what are we gonig to do this late. I usually respond with a movie or just straight out say I want to see them.
 

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You got to say 'Baby you are not a booty call i just started thinking about you and wanted to see you so bad. I've been wanting to call you all day but i've been so busy so come over right now and lets do it like discovery channel'.
 

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Crissco said:
Just cleared my inbox.

Like I said in one of my last posts. Ide rather have the info in my head for when the situation comes up. It makes things a lot easier.

When girls mention that, I act like I didnt even see it, and it still doesnt work. Im obv doing something wrong here

Then they mention what are we gonig to do this late. I usually respond with a movie or just straight out say I want to see them.

You can't have the info in your head for every possible situation. Which is why people get annoyed that you start a thread for every random situation that pops up in your head.

Sometimes it's just common sense and experience.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ease said:
You got to say 'Baby you are not a booty call i just started thinking about you and wanted to see you so bad. I've been wanting to call you all day but i've been so busy so come over right now and lets do it like discovery channel'.
hahahaa I think i might try that one out for the hell of it
 

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I say "lets play chutes and ladders"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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