"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to handle a booty call-call out

Crissco

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Ex- I hit a girl up at 3 in the morning wanting some. Wanting her to come over, she says im not a booty call!!

How should I handle/respond to that?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Crissco, why do I always see a new thread started by you?
You know you cant get examples of every situation in life and react accordingly. What happened to going out and doing?
Check out the blueprint and flawless natural. Your questions should be answered.

As for the booty call, it should be obvious to ignore/verbally agree to the last part and plow through the LMR.
Unless you're already friend-zoned.
Cheers.

PS: Sorry for posting here, but you gotta clean up your PMs.
 

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Just cleared my inbox.

Like I said in one of my last posts. Ide rather have the info in my head for when the situation comes up. It makes things a lot easier.

When girls mention that, I act like I didnt even see it, and it still doesnt work. Im obv doing something wrong here

Then they mention what are we gonig to do this late. I usually respond with a movie or just straight out say I want to see them.
 

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You got to say 'Baby you are not a booty call i just started thinking about you and wanted to see you so bad. I've been wanting to call you all day but i've been so busy so come over right now and lets do it like discovery channel'.
 

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Crissco said:
Just cleared my inbox.

Like I said in one of my last posts. Ide rather have the info in my head for when the situation comes up. It makes things a lot easier.

When girls mention that, I act like I didnt even see it, and it still doesnt work. Im obv doing something wrong here

Then they mention what are we gonig to do this late. I usually respond with a movie or just straight out say I want to see them.

You can't have the info in your head for every possible situation. Which is why people get annoyed that you start a thread for every random situation that pops up in your head.

Sometimes it's just common sense and experience.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ease said:
You got to say 'Baby you are not a booty call i just started thinking about you and wanted to see you so bad. I've been wanting to call you all day but i've been so busy so come over right now and lets do it like discovery channel'.
hahahaa I think i might try that one out for the hell of it
 

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I say "lets play chutes and ladders"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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