How to be modern super (single) mom..

[AureliusMaximus]

All boxes checked!
In other words, good reasons for not date single moms...

 

[Robert28]

The main reason is she expects you to spend money on her kid(s)!

 

[Barrister]

I don't see anything about "loving to travel" or how much she loves wine. Otherwise, fairly on point.

 

[jaymbrs]

This is more of a Single Liberal Dating Profile. Single mom would talk more about her kids dad(s), motherhood makes her powerful, "if you can't handle my kids, you can't handle me", etc.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

The main reason is she expects you to spend money on her kid(s)!

This has never occurred with me and I have dated many. Sounds like stuff people get from reading a post from one person and think it happens all the time.

 

[Robert28]

This has never occurred with me and I have dated many. Sounds like stuff people get from reading a post from one person and think it happens all the time.

It’s happened to me 3 times before actually.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

It’s happened to me 3 times before actually.

Seems like you need to screen better.

 

[Robert28]

Seems like you need to screen better.

People don’t always show their true colors up front.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

People don’t always show their true colors up front.

That's why you have to learn to ask unrelated questions that seemingly have nothing to do with what you are trying to learn but are directly related.

This is a skill and a highly valuable one to have and to hone.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

People don’t always show their true colors up front.

Girls are experts at this. Some can keep up the appearance for months even years until the ring on the finger... comes along offer by some sad sod of a gun.

 

[SW15]

That's good. I'll add that this is more applicable to a single mom's swipe app profile. If a man is to meet a single mom via in-person approaching, she won't say "my kids are my life" within the first 20 minutes of meeting her.

I won't date single moms and there are many single moms in my age range. It's a bad lifestyle match between a childless man and a single mom.

 

[corsica]

People don’t always show their true colors up front.

Should've paid attention to her stretch marks and lifeless tits.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Should've paid attention to her stretch marks and lifeless tits.

Like this? Ha ha..

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Three different men for her children, mental issues and takes pharma drugs, twice divorced, post wall and even then she thinks she can put up demands for a high value guy and on top of that; thinks that men will sign up for the "application" to be a walking wallet.



Just wow...
The delusion is real gents.
But on the flipside; it seems that many women seem to operate like this and has no real connection to the earth they ware walking on.

 

[corsica]

^^

I lose faith in humanity when I see stuff like that because I know some poor desperate thirsty will take her.

We should add different reaction-emojis. Vomit (for situations like this).

 

[SW15]

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Three different men for her children, mental issues and takes pharma drugs, twice divorced, post wall and even then she thinks she can put up demands for a high value guy and on top of that; thinks that men will sign up for the "application" to be a walking wallet.

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Just wow...
The delusion is real gents.
But on the flipside; it seems that many women seem to operate like this and has no real connection to the earth they ware walking on.

She looks like she might be physically attractive at 33. 33 is still somewhat young. 40-45 year old men would go wild for someone 33. Based on looks alone, she could get interest from men 33-37 and even some horny younger men.

The problem is her baggage. 3 kids alone is enough baggage, even if all 3 kids were from the same man. It's probably worse that her 3 kids were from 3 different men. It seems like 2 of her kids were results of 2 relationships that involved wedding vows and a divorce. For me, I eliminate all single moms from consideration so that fact doesn't sway me any more negatively. 2 failed marriages doesn't reflect well on her.

Having an OF is a red flag for an extended relationship but passable for recreational use only depending on the man's goals.

Despite all her baggage, there will be no shortage of men who will swipe right on her and no shortage of men who will agree to a date with her. She could even get a commitment from a thirsty, desperate simp. She's not getting a commitment from a high value man. Even most medium value men will pass on that.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Despite all her baggage, there will be no shortage of men who will swipe right on her and no shortage of men who will agree to a date with her.

Sadly that is probably very true. Some thirsty dudes will likely sell their soul and fill out the "application" and hope to "get the job".