Slowhandluke
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 7, 2022
- Messages
- 932
- Reaction score
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- Age
- 51
Super power - youth and sex
Weakness - father time...
Weakness - father time...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
They always try to introduce you to the child.Don't date single moms bois!
Well basically....They always try to introduce you to the child.
they also try and make it seem like the kid will have so much in common with you. Like ohhh Johnny Loves golf and working out....just like you !!!! Listen... I don’t give a fck... Johnny doesn’t have my dna.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Its interesting when these post smashed wall 30 something year olds try to impress you by saying that they work out alot.Lol!!!! I’ve hooked up with a few and it was like a script. Every one acted the same.... suddenly become obsessed with fitness... try to portray themselves as an amazing potential wife/mom. Sending pics of amazing food.... always loves wine.
they would always bad mouth the ex... and if you hang around too long they will start trying to sell you on their kids. Ohhh Jimmy is such an athlete like me.. he doesn’t get his bum father... he would love meeting you .