Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How should I respond to this text I got from a pof girl (srs)

Solomon

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"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"

:eek:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I would be really nice, feign concern, tell her she's awesome... never call her again.
 

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Solomon said:
"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"

:eek:
Ask if her herpes are currently in submission. If they are, DEFINITELY be nice.

If her herpes are active, you'll need to go to Plan B.... Track down someone's cute cousin.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"thats sounds awful, what did the police do?"

if you get the " I didnt report it" line then she has been f cking around and caught the herp barebacking some dog
if there was court action then approve , give your sympathies and tell her you dont have intimate relationshups with girls who have the herp..unless you do!
 

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betheman said:
"thats sounds awful, what did the police do?"

if you get the " I didnt report it" line then she has been f cking around and caught the herp barebacking some dog
if there was court action then approve , give your sympathies and tell her you dont have intimate relationshups with girls who have the herp..unless you do!
This. There was probably no rape. She just wants an excuse why having herpes isn't her fault. At least she's telling you up front. I bet most girls don't.
 

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Solomon said:
"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"

:eek:
Well at least she told you before you invested time in her.

Although, I find it hard to believe her story. I'm not saying that herpes can't be spread during one sexual encounter, but it's REALLY hard to get it like that.

Married couples where one partner is infected might have unprotected sex for decades before the infection spreads. This girl is telling you that she got it on ONE instance and that instance was rape. If she's looking for a sob story, why can't she say "My boyfriend cheated" or some nonsense? Women and their rape stories....some things never change.

sylvester the cat said:
Just invite her out for dinner or something. BUt wherever you take her make sure they don't serve beef.
That was the most awesome thing you've said on this message board. You should retire immediately and quit while you're ahead.
 

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betheman said:
"thats sounds awful, what did the police do?"

if you get the " I didnt report it" line then she has been f cking around and caught the herp barebacking some dog
if there was court action then approve , give your sympathies and tell her you dont have intimate relationshups with girls who have the herp..unless you do!
Nothing I didn't pres charges. I had been assaulted 2 times before and no one bleived me/ I lived in a ****ed up little town back home

that was her response

@Iceberg--it makes me worried on how many women on pof online sites got the herp. THis is my second time this year dealing with this. And guys wonder why im so cirtical about online dating

If your chances of getting herpes go up like that

no thanks

:nervous:
 

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Solomon said:
Nothing I didn't pres charges. I had been assaulted 2 times before and no one bleived me/ I lived in a ****ed up little town back home

that was her response
Hahaha.

Ah, that's great.

Personal story - a close family member of mine got raped. In the true sense. A guy broke into her apartment in a mask, while her 4 year old child was there, and raped her.

Naturally, she reported it immediately, the police found evidence and the guy pled guilty and was jailed for 10 years.

That's what NORMAL people do when rape happens.

So, yeah it's kinda comical to hear your pof chick talking about, "Yeah I got brutally raped, but oh well. You know...people didn't believe me that previous 2 times. So, yeah, being physically and emotionally brutalized isn't a big deal.....So wanna date?"

@Iceberg--it makes me worried on how many women on pof online sites got the herp. THis is my second time this year dealing with this. And guys wonder why im so cirtical about online dating

If your chances of getting herpes go up like that

no thanks

:nervous:
I'd imagine that it can't be any better or worse than the skanks I might pick up at a club on a weekend night. But I haven't given it deep thought.

At least these chicks can anonymously warn you about their herp, as opposed to a drunk chick at a bar who's loaded on vodka and looking to get laid.

...well, that's what I tell myself anyway.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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honestly Iceberg and Co

I'm glad this broad told me this beforehand, she actually seemned cool, we were suppose to meet up tommrrow and go out and do something drinking, guess that won't be happening
 

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Solomon said:
"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"
That's bad, but I would be "If the man had a beef with your cousin, why did he rape you?"
 

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Solomon said:
honestly Iceberg and Co

I'm glad this broad told me this beforehand, she actually seemned cool, we were suppose to meet up tommrrow and go out and do something drinking, guess that won't be happening

To be honest, it's not the herpes that lowers my opinion of the girl. It's the fake rape story.

I can accept that sh!t happens in life. Who knows...The next girl I bang might give me some disease....doesn't make me a bad person.

Making up lies about rape does. That's what turns me off about this broad.
 

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i think you should not respond to her at all
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'd most likely respond: Herpes? I thought you said you had a hairpiece!
 

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Could she actually be lying to throw you off the scent?
 

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The whole story sounds so fucking bizarre I would just drop it like a hot potato. Damaged goods plus an incurable STD. Don't waste another second on her. You may feel sorry for her and she may actually be a nice person, but, Solly, she sounds fucked up and who needs that kind of shit?
 

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Solomon said:
"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"

:eek:

Yesterday one on there told me she was drugged and gang raped by 10 guys and the drug she was on made her do whatever they all said. I thought it was an odd thing to tell someone you just meet online
 

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prolly just really a dude trolling you
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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