"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How should I respond to this text I got from a pof girl (srs)

Solomon

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"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"

:eek:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I would be really nice, feign concern, tell her she's awesome... never call her again.
 

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Solomon said:
"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"

:eek:
Ask if her herpes are currently in submission. If they are, DEFINITELY be nice.

If her herpes are active, you'll need to go to Plan B.... Track down someone's cute cousin.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"thats sounds awful, what did the police do?"

if you get the " I didnt report it" line then she has been f cking around and caught the herp barebacking some dog
if there was court action then approve , give your sympathies and tell her you dont have intimate relationshups with girls who have the herp..unless you do!
 

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betheman said:
"thats sounds awful, what did the police do?"

if you get the " I didnt report it" line then she has been f cking around and caught the herp barebacking some dog
if there was court action then approve , give your sympathies and tell her you dont have intimate relationshups with girls who have the herp..unless you do!
This. There was probably no rape. She just wants an excuse why having herpes isn't her fault. At least she's telling you up front. I bet most girls don't.
 

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Solomon said:
"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"

:eek:
Well at least she told you before you invested time in her.

Although, I find it hard to believe her story. I'm not saying that herpes can't be spread during one sexual encounter, but it's REALLY hard to get it like that.

Married couples where one partner is infected might have unprotected sex for decades before the infection spreads. This girl is telling you that she got it on ONE instance and that instance was rape. If she's looking for a sob story, why can't she say "My boyfriend cheated" or some nonsense? Women and their rape stories....some things never change.

sylvester the cat said:
Just invite her out for dinner or something. BUt wherever you take her make sure they don't serve beef.
That was the most awesome thing you've said on this message board. You should retire immediately and quit while you're ahead.
 

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betheman said:
"thats sounds awful, what did the police do?"

if you get the " I didnt report it" line then she has been f cking around and caught the herp barebacking some dog
if there was court action then approve , give your sympathies and tell her you dont have intimate relationshups with girls who have the herp..unless you do!
Nothing I didn't pres charges. I had been assaulted 2 times before and no one bleived me/ I lived in a ****ed up little town back home

that was her response

@Iceberg--it makes me worried on how many women on pof online sites got the herp. THis is my second time this year dealing with this. And guys wonder why im so cirtical about online dating

If your chances of getting herpes go up like that

no thanks

:nervous:
 

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Solomon said:
Nothing I didn't pres charges. I had been assaulted 2 times before and no one bleived me/ I lived in a ****ed up little town back home

that was her response
Hahaha.

Ah, that's great.

Personal story - a close family member of mine got raped. In the true sense. A guy broke into her apartment in a mask, while her 4 year old child was there, and raped her.

Naturally, she reported it immediately, the police found evidence and the guy pled guilty and was jailed for 10 years.

That's what NORMAL people do when rape happens.

So, yeah it's kinda comical to hear your pof chick talking about, "Yeah I got brutally raped, but oh well. You know...people didn't believe me that previous 2 times. So, yeah, being physically and emotionally brutalized isn't a big deal.....So wanna date?"

@Iceberg--it makes me worried on how many women on pof online sites got the herp. THis is my second time this year dealing with this. And guys wonder why im so cirtical about online dating

If your chances of getting herpes go up like that

no thanks

:nervous:
I'd imagine that it can't be any better or worse than the skanks I might pick up at a club on a weekend night. But I haven't given it deep thought.

At least these chicks can anonymously warn you about their herp, as opposed to a drunk chick at a bar who's loaded on vodka and looking to get laid.

...well, that's what I tell myself anyway.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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honestly Iceberg and Co

I'm glad this broad told me this beforehand, she actually seemned cool, we were suppose to meet up tommrrow and go out and do something drinking, guess that won't be happening
 

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Solomon said:
"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"
That's bad, but I would be "If the man had a beef with your cousin, why did he rape you?"
 

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Solomon said:
honestly Iceberg and Co

I'm glad this broad told me this beforehand, she actually seemned cool, we were suppose to meet up tommrrow and go out and do something drinking, guess that won't be happening

To be honest, it's not the herpes that lowers my opinion of the girl. It's the fake rape story.

I can accept that sh!t happens in life. Who knows...The next girl I bang might give me some disease....doesn't make me a bad person.

Making up lies about rape does. That's what turns me off about this broad.
 

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i think you should not respond to her at all
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'd most likely respond: Herpes? I thought you said you had a hairpiece!
 

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Could she actually be lying to throw you off the scent?
 

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The whole story sounds so fucking bizarre I would just drop it like a hot potato. Damaged goods plus an incurable STD. Don't waste another second on her. You may feel sorry for her and she may actually be a nice person, but, Solly, she sounds fucked up and who needs that kind of shit?
 

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Solomon said:
"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"

:eek:

Yesterday one on there told me she was drugged and gang raped by 10 guys and the drug she was on made her do whatever they all said. I thought it was an odd thing to tell someone you just meet online
 

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prolly just really a dude trolling you
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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