Solomon
Master Don Juan
"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ask if her herpes are currently in submission. If they are, DEFINITELY be nice.Solomon said:"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This. There was probably no rape. She just wants an excuse why having herpes isn't her fault. At least she's telling you up front. I bet most girls don't.betheman said:"thats sounds awful, what did the police do?"
if you get the " I didnt report it" line then she has been f cking around and caught the herp barebacking some dog
if there was court action then approve , give your sympathies and tell her you dont have intimate relationshups with girls who have the herp..unless you do!
Well at least she told you before you invested time in her.Solomon said:"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"
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That was the most awesome thing you've said on this message board. You should retire immediately and quit while you're ahead.sylvester the cat said:Just invite her out for dinner or something. BUt wherever you take her make sure they don't serve beef.
Nothing I didn't pres charges. I had been assaulted 2 times before and no one bleived me/ I lived in a ****ed up little town back homebetheman said:"thats sounds awful, what did the police do?"
if you get the " I didnt report it" line then she has been f cking around and caught the herp barebacking some dog
if there was court action then approve , give your sympathies and tell her you dont have intimate relationshups with girls who have the herp..unless you do!
Hahaha.Solomon said:Nothing I didn't pres charges. I had been assaulted 2 times before and no one bleived me/ I lived in a ****ed up little town back home
that was her response
I'd imagine that it can't be any better or worse than the skanks I might pick up at a club on a weekend night. But I haven't given it deep thought.@Iceberg--it makes me worried on how many women on pof online sites got the herp. THis is my second time this year dealing with this. And guys wonder why im so cirtical about online dating
If your chances of getting herpes go up like that
no thanks
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That's bad, but I would be "If the man had a beef with your cousin, why did he rape you?"Solomon said:"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"
Solomon said:honestly Iceberg and Co
I'm glad this broad told me this beforehand, she actually seemned cool, we were suppose to meet up tommrrow and go out and do something drinking, guess that won't be happening
Dman101 said:she just looks soo good to me, I"m super attracted to her and she actually likes me too and we were having sex for 6 months
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Solomon said:"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.