Solomon
Master Don Juan
"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ask if her herpes are currently in submission. If they are, DEFINITELY be nice.Solomon said:"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This. There was probably no rape. She just wants an excuse why having herpes isn't her fault. At least she's telling you up front. I bet most girls don't.betheman said:"thats sounds awful, what did the police do?"
if you get the " I didnt report it" line then she has been f cking around and caught the herp barebacking some dog
if there was court action then approve , give your sympathies and tell her you dont have intimate relationshups with girls who have the herp..unless you do!
Well at least she told you before you invested time in her.Solomon said:"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"
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That was the most awesome thing you've said on this message board. You should retire immediately and quit while you're ahead.sylvester the cat said:Just invite her out for dinner or something. BUt wherever you take her make sure they don't serve beef.
Nothing I didn't pres charges. I had been assaulted 2 times before and no one bleived me/ I lived in a ****ed up little town back homebetheman said:"thats sounds awful, what did the police do?"
if you get the " I didnt report it" line then she has been f cking around and caught the herp barebacking some dog
if there was court action then approve , give your sympathies and tell her you dont have intimate relationshups with girls who have the herp..unless you do!
Hahaha.Solomon said:Nothing I didn't pres charges. I had been assaulted 2 times before and no one bleived me/ I lived in a ****ed up little town back home
that was her response
I'd imagine that it can't be any better or worse than the skanks I might pick up at a club on a weekend night. But I haven't given it deep thought.@Iceberg--it makes me worried on how many women on pof online sites got the herp. THis is my second time this year dealing with this. And guys wonder why im so cirtical about online dating
If your chances of getting herpes go up like that
no thanks
:nervous:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That's bad, but I would be "If the man had a beef with your cousin, why did he rape you?"Solomon said:"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"
Solomon said:honestly Iceberg and Co
I'm glad this broad told me this beforehand, she actually seemned cool, we were suppose to meet up tommrrow and go out and do something drinking, guess that won't be happening
Dman101 said:she just looks soo good to me, I"m super attracted to her and she actually likes me too and we were having sex for 6 months
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Solomon said:"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.