Solomon
Master Don Juan
"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ask if her herpes are currently in submission. If they are, DEFINITELY be nice.Solomon said:"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
This. There was probably no rape. She just wants an excuse why having herpes isn't her fault. At least she's telling you up front. I bet most girls don't.betheman said:"thats sounds awful, what did the police do?"
if you get the " I didnt report it" line then she has been f cking around and caught the herp barebacking some dog
if there was court action then approve , give your sympathies and tell her you dont have intimate relationshups with girls who have the herp..unless you do!
Well at least she told you before you invested time in her.Solomon said:"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"
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That was the most awesome thing you've said on this message board. You should retire immediately and quit while you're ahead.sylvester the cat said:Just invite her out for dinner or something. BUt wherever you take her make sure they don't serve beef.
Nothing I didn't pres charges. I had been assaulted 2 times before and no one bleived me/ I lived in a ****ed up little town back homebetheman said:"thats sounds awful, what did the police do?"
if you get the " I didnt report it" line then she has been f cking around and caught the herp barebacking some dog
if there was court action then approve , give your sympathies and tell her you dont have intimate relationshups with girls who have the herp..unless you do!
Hahaha.Solomon said:Nothing I didn't pres charges. I had been assaulted 2 times before and no one bleived me/ I lived in a ****ed up little town back home
that was her response
I'd imagine that it can't be any better or worse than the skanks I might pick up at a club on a weekend night. But I haven't given it deep thought.@Iceberg--it makes me worried on how many women on pof online sites got the herp. THis is my second time this year dealing with this. And guys wonder why im so cirtical about online dating
If your chances of getting herpes go up like that
no thanks
:nervous:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That's bad, but I would be "If the man had a beef with your cousin, why did he rape you?"Solomon said:"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"
Solomon said:honestly Iceberg and Co
I'm glad this broad told me this beforehand, she actually seemned cool, we were suppose to meet up tommrrow and go out and do something drinking, guess that won't be happening
Dman101 said:she just looks soo good to me, I"m super attracted to her and she actually likes me too and we were having sex for 6 months
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Solomon said:"2 years ago I was brutually raped by a man who had beef with a cousin of mine. And he gave me gential herpes. Its cool if you want to not talk but please b nice"
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.