http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6wG_sAdP0U
Would you go this far for online dates? What are your thoughts on this video?
Would you go this far for online dates? What are your thoughts on this video?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How one woman hacked online dating.
- Thread starter Warrior74
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Props to her for putting in the effort to not only elucidate her own criteria, but also to figure out an algorithm to make it happen.
Many guys on this site would do well to do the same.
The better you choose up front, the less problems you'll have down the road.
Many guys on this site would do well to do the same.
The better you choose up front, the less problems you'll have down the road.
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
Couple of good ideas, if labor intensive. Use dummy profiles of the kind of person you want to gauge the competition versus your own profile. Also average 23 hours between communication for women..
Otherwise nothing you can't get off so swauve in about 20 mins.
Otherwise nothing you can't get off so swauve in about 20 mins.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
Well, you're right...but just for fun I did what she did and back tested 13 women I've dated this year versus what I think is important to me. And it actually did confirm what this site preachs.
Girls I met in real life are all over the map for quality.
Match girls are good quality..may be better screening.
POF girls are terrible...again, may be screening.
Quality girls that are newer, have higher interest..reflects improved self..?
Two of the top four are current plates.
Nothing you can't learn here, but she has figured some stuff out.
Girls I met in real life are all over the map for quality.
Match girls are good quality..may be better screening.
POF girls are terrible...again, may be screening.
Quality girls that are newer, have higher interest..reflects improved self..?
Two of the top four are current plates.
Nothing you can't learn here, but she has figured some stuff out.
Big Nuts
Senior Don Juan
To me as a 45 year old...this woman is awful...frumpy, over analytical, unattractive...I wouldn't bang her after 10 beers let alone marry and have kids...LOL....online has made her delusional.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Banned
I knew I'd seen that sap from somewhere else.Jitterbug said:
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/01/21/the-modern-sexual-market-in-a-picture/
Sheesh that is a great honour to them both, being featured at Heartiste.( . )( . ) said:
He certainly can marry much hotter women from other countries, but I'm guessing his Jewish mother has other ideas.MidnightCity said: