“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How one woman hacked online dating.

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Props to her for putting in the effort to not only elucidate her own criteria, but also to figure out an algorithm to make it happen.

Many guys on this site would do well to do the same.

The better you choose up front, the less problems you'll have down the road.
 

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Anybody got the cliff notes? I just can't listen to a woman for 17minutes.
 

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Couple of good ideas, if labor intensive. Use dummy profiles of the kind of person you want to gauge the competition versus your own profile. Also average 23 hours between communication for women..

Otherwise nothing you can't get off so swauve in about 20 mins.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Alternative: lose weight and dress better.

Probably too hard.
 

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Well, you're right...but just for fun I did what she did and back tested 13 women I've dated this year versus what I think is important to me. And it actually did confirm what this site preachs.
Girls I met in real life are all over the map for quality.
Match girls are good quality..may be better screening.
POF girls are terrible...again, may be screening.
Quality girls that are newer, have higher interest..reflects improved self..?
Two of the top four are current plates.

Nothing you can't learn here, but she has figured some stuff out.
 

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I was quite impressed by all that - glad it worked out for her.
 

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To me as a 45 year old...this woman is awful...frumpy, over analytical, unattractive...I wouldn't bang her after 10 beers let alone marry and have kids...LOL....online has made her delusional.
 

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Google "Amy Webb husband", have a close look at the poor fella, and tell me if her "success" is due to her l33t online dating hax0r skillz, or in spite of it.
 

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