http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6wG_sAdP0U
Would you go this far for online dates? What are your thoughts on this video?
Would you go this far for online dates? What are your thoughts on this video?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How one woman hacked online dating.
- Thread starter Warrior74
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Props to her for putting in the effort to not only elucidate her own criteria, but also to figure out an algorithm to make it happen.
Many guys on this site would do well to do the same.
The better you choose up front, the less problems you'll have down the road.
Many guys on this site would do well to do the same.
The better you choose up front, the less problems you'll have down the road.
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
Couple of good ideas, if labor intensive. Use dummy profiles of the kind of person you want to gauge the competition versus your own profile. Also average 23 hours between communication for women..
Otherwise nothing you can't get off so swauve in about 20 mins.
Otherwise nothing you can't get off so swauve in about 20 mins.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
Well, you're right...but just for fun I did what she did and back tested 13 women I've dated this year versus what I think is important to me. And it actually did confirm what this site preachs.
Girls I met in real life are all over the map for quality.
Match girls are good quality..may be better screening.
POF girls are terrible...again, may be screening.
Quality girls that are newer, have higher interest..reflects improved self..?
Two of the top four are current plates.
Nothing you can't learn here, but she has figured some stuff out.
Girls I met in real life are all over the map for quality.
Match girls are good quality..may be better screening.
POF girls are terrible...again, may be screening.
Quality girls that are newer, have higher interest..reflects improved self..?
Two of the top four are current plates.
Nothing you can't learn here, but she has figured some stuff out.
Big Nuts
Senior Don Juan
To me as a 45 year old...this woman is awful...frumpy, over analytical, unattractive...I wouldn't bang her after 10 beers let alone marry and have kids...LOL....online has made her delusional.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Banned
I knew I'd seen that sap from somewhere else.Jitterbug said:
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/01/21/the-modern-sexual-market-in-a-picture/
Sheesh that is a great honour to them both, being featured at Heartiste.( . )( . ) said:
He certainly can marry much hotter women from other countries, but I'm guessing his Jewish mother has other ideas.MidnightCity said: