http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6wG_sAdP0U
Would you go this far for online dates? What are your thoughts on this video?
Would you go this far for online dates? What are your thoughts on this video?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How one woman hacked online dating.
- Thread starter Warrior74
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Props to her for putting in the effort to not only elucidate her own criteria, but also to figure out an algorithm to make it happen.
Many guys on this site would do well to do the same.
The better you choose up front, the less problems you'll have down the road.
Many guys on this site would do well to do the same.
The better you choose up front, the less problems you'll have down the road.
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
Couple of good ideas, if labor intensive. Use dummy profiles of the kind of person you want to gauge the competition versus your own profile. Also average 23 hours between communication for women..
Otherwise nothing you can't get off so swauve in about 20 mins.
Otherwise nothing you can't get off so swauve in about 20 mins.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
Well, you're right...but just for fun I did what she did and back tested 13 women I've dated this year versus what I think is important to me. And it actually did confirm what this site preachs.
Girls I met in real life are all over the map for quality.
Match girls are good quality..may be better screening.
POF girls are terrible...again, may be screening.
Quality girls that are newer, have higher interest..reflects improved self..?
Two of the top four are current plates.
Nothing you can't learn here, but she has figured some stuff out.
Girls I met in real life are all over the map for quality.
Match girls are good quality..may be better screening.
POF girls are terrible...again, may be screening.
Quality girls that are newer, have higher interest..reflects improved self..?
Two of the top four are current plates.
Nothing you can't learn here, but she has figured some stuff out.
Big Nuts
Senior Don Juan
To me as a 45 year old...this woman is awful...frumpy, over analytical, unattractive...I wouldn't bang her after 10 beers let alone marry and have kids...LOL....online has made her delusional.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I knew I'd seen that sap from somewhere else.Jitterbug said:
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/01/21/the-modern-sexual-market-in-a-picture/
Sheesh that is a great honour to them both, being featured at Heartiste.( . )( . ) said:
He certainly can marry much hotter women from other countries, but I'm guessing his Jewish mother has other ideas.MidnightCity said: