Dukester
Master Don Juan
this is just for reference, no logical reason for doing this...
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
How Much?
- Thread starter Dukester
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dark Nimbus
Senior Don Juan
Wtf?!?? Some of you would spend more then $50 on a first date? Even if I had the money I wouldn't spend more then $5-10 on a first date. I wonder how much better your chances of getting laid with the average girl are if you spend sick money on her during the first date. I'm guessing not much better then mine though...
rgeere
Master Don Juan
The only dates I go on are the ones where I have to run some random errand and the girl is along for the ride.
This means that however much I spend, I spend it on myself. I don't go out on dates "just for her" like a lot of AFCs believe that have to do.
This means that however much I spend, I spend it on myself. I don't go out on dates "just for her" like a lot of AFCs believe that have to do.
CapiCrimini
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what do you mean?
I always try to fit her into my schedule when I go on a date. Meaning if I'm going to so-and-so to get whatever and blah-blah-cafe` is on the way. I'd ask her to stop by there on the way.[well that would be what I would do if I actually went anywhere to do stuff.
]But errand to me means a car ride to the post-office to drop off a letter...?
Could you explain.
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I also havn't ever spent more then $20 on a girl for a date myself. The most I've ever spent was $30 and that was more my parents. She came with me to a theme park. Wasn't really a first date though.
As always offer to pay for her half, if she says she'll pay let her...
Anyway. $5-$10 sounds right.[including your expense.]
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Yeah, you are spending time with her while doing things that you would do normally. Meaning you don't go out of the way to do anything with her.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
CapiCrimini
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GIRL: So when are we going out?
YOU: I crap at 5:01pm...ummm... so If you could be there at 5:00 I think I could fit in a five minute-r... sound good?
GIRL: Sounds great!
I got you though regree.
MrCode
Senior Don Juan
I once spent $80 on a first date (dinner at some fancy-ass restaurant.) The chic really liked me and spending that kind of cash was completely pointless, but I didn't know then what I know now.
I could have totally banged that chic, but didn't because I didn't like her that much. I was also a major AFC.
Now a first date is coffee at the most, or just walking around or doing errands, rgeere-style.
I could have totally banged that chic, but didn't because I didn't like her that much. I was also a major AFC.
Now a first date is coffee at the most, or just walking around or doing errands, rgeere-style.
Dukester
Master Don Juan
i only spend about 5-15, maybe 20, depending on how much i like the girl, and how much she likes me
for those that spend over $50, u guys must be on crack!
for those that spend over $50, u guys must be on crack!