Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You could extend that to "every facet of any society - ever" since thats how humans areThey get paid less if they dealt with Black men in the past. The porn industry is also racist, like almost every other facet of American society.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Maybe because they think they got their holes stretched out too much?They get paid less if they dealt with Black men in the past. The porn industry is also racist, like almost every other facet of American society.
Based on your success rate and your posts I have s feeling if you got offered to bang HB2s for free you'd probably take it but deny it to the forum. Lmao.I would love to have that Mom POV guy's job or the guy on backroom casting. BUT the women, especially on Backroom casting are mostly like sluts, HB4s and ugly. If they were Hb7!!! I'd do it for free.
why only 6 months?Honestly, if you're going to be this lazy in writing a thread people aren't going to want to reply to you.
So not sure what do you expect someone on here to give you their thoughts.
All I did was copy and paste what you wrote and I got this in google.
But what I hear is that there is heirarchy where the top 10% earn 90% of the money.
Everyone else is not making that much. Most porn stars only last 3-6 months.
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They don't make enough money and gives upwhy only 6 months?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ouch. Porn tarnishing your future prospects for a paltry 6 months pay?They don't make enough money and gives up
Most of them are just 18 years old and don't know any better how to judge the risk and reward.Ouch. Porn tarnishing your future prospects for a paltry 6 months pay?