You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You could extend that to "every facet of any society - ever" since thats how humans areThey get paid less if they dealt with Black men in the past. The porn industry is also racist, like almost every other facet of American society.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Maybe because they think they got their holes stretched out too much?They get paid less if they dealt with Black men in the past. The porn industry is also racist, like almost every other facet of American society.
Based on your success rate and your posts I have s feeling if you got offered to bang HB2s for free you'd probably take it but deny it to the forum. Lmao.I would love to have that Mom POV guy's job or the guy on backroom casting. BUT the women, especially on Backroom casting are mostly like sluts, HB4s and ugly. If they were Hb7!!! I'd do it for free.
why only 6 months?Honestly, if you're going to be this lazy in writing a thread people aren't going to want to reply to you.
So not sure what do you expect someone on here to give you their thoughts.
All I did was copy and paste what you wrote and I got this in google.
But what I hear is that there is heirarchy where the top 10% earn 90% of the money.
Everyone else is not making that much. Most porn stars only last 3-6 months.
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They don't make enough money and gives upwhy only 6 months?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ouch. Porn tarnishing your future prospects for a paltry 6 months pay?They don't make enough money and gives up
Most of them are just 18 years old and don't know any better how to judge the risk and reward.Ouch. Porn tarnishing your future prospects for a paltry 6 months pay?