She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You could extend that to "every facet of any society - ever" since thats how humans areThey get paid less if they dealt with Black men in the past. The porn industry is also racist, like almost every other facet of American society.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Maybe because they think they got their holes stretched out too much?They get paid less if they dealt with Black men in the past. The porn industry is also racist, like almost every other facet of American society.
Based on your success rate and your posts I have s feeling if you got offered to bang HB2s for free you'd probably take it but deny it to the forum. Lmao.I would love to have that Mom POV guy's job or the guy on backroom casting. BUT the women, especially on Backroom casting are mostly like sluts, HB4s and ugly. If they were Hb7!!! I'd do it for free.
why only 6 months?Honestly, if you're going to be this lazy in writing a thread people aren't going to want to reply to you.
So not sure what do you expect someone on here to give you their thoughts.
All I did was copy and paste what you wrote and I got this in google.
But what I hear is that there is heirarchy where the top 10% earn 90% of the money.
Everyone else is not making that much. Most porn stars only last 3-6 months.
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They don't make enough money and gives upwhy only 6 months?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ouch. Porn tarnishing your future prospects for a paltry 6 months pay?They don't make enough money and gives up
Most of them are just 18 years old and don't know any better how to judge the risk and reward.Ouch. Porn tarnishing your future prospects for a paltry 6 months pay?