You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Every once in a while I discover a new p0rno gem that makes me want to fap repeatedly the same day; it subsides after a few days.3 times a day is excessive. You have a problem.
How is your prostate health?Porn and masturbation are unhealthy habits. I don't want to write at length about it here. Below is the major source about this topic.
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I live a no porn, no masturbation lifestyle and have been doing it for nearly 10 years.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It's OVER for LemurIncels.There is no established health consequences from doing it. Primates do it regularly.
I literally was at a zoo once about 10 years ago when my then young daughter asked me why the Lemur was moving his hand up and down so fast. I can't remember what I said but in my mind I was crying with laughter.
I wasn't sure if those blisters I had on my willy were from too much masturbation or something I got from the sisters I picked up at the bus station downtown.
Regardless, I can't seem to rub them off.
Hi Duke,I wasn't sure if those blisters I had on my willy were from too much masturbation or something I got from the sisters I picked up at the bus station downtown.
Regardless, I can't seem to rub them off.
It's draining your life source dude.. That semen your spilling is powerful.Its 3 per day for me? What are the harms of mast.?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Hey man did you notice a very obvious increase in attention you get from girls while retaining?I am not a doctor or something like that, but talking about myself: I feel pretty different (more confident, receiving more girl's looks while walking on the street, etc) without doing this.
I've read somewhere that masturbation and pornography also affect erection.
Avoid it.
I didn't have a gf since i masturbating too much. SO It can be about smellingIt's draining your life source dude.. That semen your spilling is powerful.
Try retaining for a couple of weeks.. I promise you will feel awesome, very much in control.. Your energy and focus will be super high & you will feel super motivated to actually talk to girls and smash for real.
And for some reason I don't fully understand yet... Girls will check you out more, talk to you, and even stare at you.
It's like they can smell that testerone.
No problem.. You must have huge wrists lolI didn't have a gf since i masturbating too much. SO It can be about smellingThank you all guys.
I found nofap and I'll do that.
Hey bro.Hey man did you notice a very obvious increase in attention you get from girls while retaining?
Same here.. Especially in my first 2-3 weeks.. Was quite baffling.Hey bro.
Yes. Crazy sh*t.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.